[Aiko]

Lucifer: THANK YOU! *Hugs* And I am sorry to hear you've experienced it too, I can't say in words how deeply

[Yuki]

I hope at least I didn't insult anyone. >3> I guess I'm just special cause I haven't ever had these problems. Or shall we say "lucky"?

[johnny]

Originally Posted by Yuki

There was warning signs and still you stayed with him. I already know I'm selfish so I wouldn't care if someone told me so. I'd tell them to mind their own business. I'm not saying it was your fault but things could have been done better eh?

Lmao, I'm the same way.

I'm not going to take anything from anyone. I can't even imagine liking someone enough to put up with them abusing - or even annoying - me. I'm not that wrapped up in needing another person. I've been romantically alone for twenty years now, I don't really care if I'm alone for twenty more. xD

[Yuki]

Originally Posted by johnny

Lmao, I'm the same way.

I'm not going to take anything from anyone. I can't even imagine liking someone enough to put up with them abusing - or even annoying - me. I'm not that wrapped up in needing another person. I've been romantically alone for twenty years now, I don't really care if I'm alone for twenty more. xD

Yeah, I'm extremely picky and if he even tries telling me what's right and what to do I'd say "Thanks for the opinion I don't give a damn". There's a limit, even for people you love.

[Lucifer]

Originally Posted by Yuki

There was warning signs and still you stayed with him. I already know I'm selfish so I wouldn't care if someone told me so. I'd tell them to mind their own business. I'm not saying it was your fault but things could have been done better eh?

If you mean me, no.. we got thrusted into it pretty fast like.. .we'd not even been dating a month it'd been a friendship/casual dating thing but then my grandparents got sick and both were out of the house and he started to stay there to "keep an eye on me/keep em safe"
And I hate being completely alone in a new house (I'd just helped them move in)
And.. it was just a big messed up situation in general.

@Aiko I'm sorry you've went through similar.. :C *huggles tightly*

[Aiko]

Johnny & Yuki: I do believe that both are you feel that way and are strong people, I am just saying you don't know before you end up in such a relationship, the signs are not as clear as you think, actually I thought this person only wanted the best for me, and always tried to help me (yes there were jealousy now and then, but not enough to start off any alarm) that was until I moved in.... the first two months went fine and everything was happiness, and then suddenly I found myself slammed into two doors, and ended up with glass pieces all over my body and a hole in my head
There was no way I'd have ever seen that coming

Lucifer: *Hugs tightly back* I am just happy someone understands

[Sephiroth]

XD I'm the oldest here too? Ah well.

[Lucifer]

Originally Posted by Sephiroth

XD I'm the oldest here too? Ah well.

Seems so.. I'm only 19, almost 20.. ;)

[SakuraMinamino]

@Sephiroth: Haha. Well you're older than me at least. I'm 20 : )

[Lucifer]

Originally Posted by SakuraMinamino

@Sephiroth: Haha. Well you're older than me at least. I'm 20 : )

I feel so young here.. since I'm only like 19 (well 20 early next month ;P)

[Sephiroth]

I'm 29 on Oct 4th.

[Yuki]

They are very clear to me. My mom's latest boyfriend both hurt us both mentally to a level where I wanted to jump off a bridge. From the moment I met him the first time I noticed something wasn't right. And he wasn't always bad but it really wasn't worth it. My mom realized it too and he's out of our lives. I have never met anyone acting so strangely. He always tried to tell us what to do and what was right. He was nuts and he had been dumped by like 7 women before. And it's not hard to understand. A person like him shouldn't live near other people. I noticed it early my mom didn't...

[Lucifer]

Originally Posted by Sephiroth

I'm 29 on Oct 4th.

Niceness :D Happy birthday 2 days after mine!! *huggles tightly* x3 (Yeah yeah I'm October 2nd.. xD)

[johnny]

I'm sorry both of you had to go through things like that.

I'm pretty sure I'd be safe, simply because "I only want the best for you" doesn't really work on me unless you're my parents. I'm not a trusting person. It took me years of knowing my friends before I knew that they actually did like me and weren't just hanging out with me out of pity, or to get more information so they could mock me behind my back or otherwise make my life awful. I still think that any time someone looks at me, they're judging me and making fun of me, and I'm still wary whenever someone tries to be nice to me because I assume they're going to push me over or put a "kick me" sign on my back or something.

My lack of socializing skills will probably save me from ever trusting someone too much.

[SakuraMinamino]

Happy early birthday to Lucifer and Sephiroth! Many good wishes for your special days : )

[Yuki]

I'm like johnny, it takes years for me to really trust somebody. I'll automatically assume someone will hurt me in the future if I don't act smart. So I never let them in too soon. This is becuase of years of bullying but I didn't actually choose to see them everyday.