[Moonshadow]

OMG that would have taken me hours, and then my eyes would be burning, from getting it in my eyes. I just recently cut my hair very short, and I was just thinking: oh no, it looks too short my ears you can see them, I don't know if I like it...
Finally I said, it literally takes me 5 minutes to blow dry it, I'm keeping it!

[Lavender le Fay]

Wow, I was already feeling good about myself, but not especially. I didn't stab myself in the eye once today, and that's a first.

That's amazing. Short hair can be just as cute and feminine or.. sassy?

[Moonshadow]

Yeah, I let it get longer and I hate all that hair and how long it takes to wash and take care of. Then I cut it short and then I look at myself and think its too short, I should let it grow. So I have decided just not to fuss over it or my appearance. I am always clean, smell nice, dress nicely. So I'm not going to stress! hahaha

[Lavender le Fay]

I remember when Miley Cyrus cut her hair, and people were telling her she looks like a lesbian. She basically took that as a compliment.

It's just hair. It's your hair. Nobody else's business.

[Moonshadow]

You are right, but it bothers me that everytime some stars cuts their hair (expample the blonde from Big Bang Theory) they immediately grow it out. It's like short hair is not sexy, cool, boring etc. I am going to be the trend setter and keep it short! haha

[Lavender le Fay]

You know whose short hair I love? Robyn's. That girl has a sassy cut in each music video.

[littl3chocobo]

i have no idea who these people are X''D


though, haley barry kept her hair short for years, is that just not a thing anymore?

[Moonshadow]

@ Lav: I just saw her pic and I love her hair. Mine is just what they call a pixie cut, I think my main problem is that I have Dumbo ears and I like to keep them semi-covered, but I want to lose all those physical dislikes we have about ourselves, you know. I was so concerned because I thought I had gained weight during the fall and winter, so I brought my summer pants to florida and guess what? they fit fine!!! so I have not gained any weight.

@cho yeah Halley Berry did have short hair for so long, then grew it out (extensions)

[littl3chocobo]

sorry XD i have not talked about her since the catwoman movie, i forgot how to spell her name XD


also, hi<3 i feel really bad so i wont be hanging around but i did want to stop in

[Lavender le Fay]

I have the same ears... No matter what anyone says, as soon as I have funds.. if I ever have funds, they're getting a trim and whatever doctors do. I got comfortable enough to be able to wear my hair up, though. Oh, that's great! That's a cool feeling.

[Moonshadow]

@cho :( Oh, I'm sorry, please feel better. I'm glad you stopped in.

@Lav yeah we have to stop feeling insecure about certain features. Like I have no boobs, but I would NEVER get implants. I just think photoshopping is ruining us, making us think that everyone is perfect except us.

Check this video out

[Lavender le Fay]

I saw that video before, and all I can say is... She was fine and beautiful before.
I have a few, minor things I'd like to fix about myself to... It's a vain reason, cannot like about that. I'm merely glad I want to fix it for myself, and not to please others.

[Moonshadow]

Then that is the right reason, but sometimes you just have to look at yourself and say: I am enough, beautiful enough, nice enough, kind enough...
then forgive yourself for whatever is in your mind that you think you need forgiving for. I struggle with forgiving myself and others.

[Lavender le Fay]

Ooh, I'll always be mad at the show Ugly Betty. Just what about that girl was ugly?

Off the top of my head, I think my vanity could be something. I have a theory about one of my past lives. I think I was a gorgeous person who took advantage of that and saw all the privilege and benefits as "normal" or "as it should be" instead of a huge blessing and being grateful.

[Moonshadow]

That could very well be the case. I have some memories and strong feelings about my past lives. I even had a series of dreams, that a few years later I realized were actually a past life recall. It was actually a very traumatic experience in that lifetime, and remembering it in this one. I never talk about them tho or elaborate to others, idk why I feel like I shouldn't.

[Lavender le Fay]

Ooh, my most... My strongest thing that I could call past life feelings or remembering... is when I look at something random, it's usually really lovely pictures of nature and I get a feeling that I was there, how it felt to be there... Sometimes even what the place smells like.