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Merlin
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I'm about ready to drive for 3 1/2 hours to get there and beat his ass. . . There's nothing I can say that no one above me has already said. . . Maybe go stay at a friend's house, but you definitely need to tell someone about this problem. Stefan really needs to get it through his thick skull that people are more than what they seem, and you don't joke about walking into someone's room and thinking about kissing or other things to their sister. . . That's just sick and demented. If someone had said that to my sisters and they came to me about it, I would smack the piss piss out of him, and told him to stay away from the family. If you're uncomfortable being alone find away to not be alone.
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:02 PM |
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I wish I was inventive enough to create a trap.
I could put my metal bookcase thing in the way of my door... Idk >< ive never called the cops before... I don't know... I don't know.. gosh how im having another panic attack... //takes deep breath I really.. I just don't know.. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:03 PM |
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woopdidoodoo
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go talk to you're mother, she's meant to protect you, show her how scared you are, take her aside, tell her you're having a panic attack right now, nothing will be done if nothing is changed
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:04 PM |
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Asami
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Sevvy for some reason I keep forgetting you know Stefan..
He is pretty stupid all the time. But he has savsaved my life once. (No joke) so I do have faith in him but if doesn't believe me my mom wont. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:04 PM |
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Asami
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My mom thinks I fake my panic attacks. I have pmdd (she thinks I made it up but I was diagnosed with it by a therapist and doctor) because of that I have tons if problems that she and my dad think I make up. I show them the symptoms list and they still dint believe me.
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:06 PM |
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Lucid:
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Deep breaths, Asami. The police are nice people, they'll help you out. I had to call the cops once and I was super terrified, but once you're on the line they're very good about keeping you calm and letting you know what to do.
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:07 PM |
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woopdidoodoo
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Asami I know all about those reactions >> I too have pmdd and am on medication to control my "monthlies" and the mood swings that go with it, all I can say then if you can't talk to anyone just protect yourself at all cost. Sleep with a knife under your pillow if you have to just be safe.
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:08 PM |
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lucid said it the best. for the record, sevvy, going there and bashing skulls is a nice way to get a felony record, and it is sexual harassment, so you need to deal with it hun.
Asami, we care about you and wanna see you safe, but we can only do that if you do that for yourself .n. i think i speak for everyone though when i say we're here for you .n. ![]() Elegia de beatus: dolore de realitatem... | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:19 PM |
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Poggio
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Asami he is doing that same psychological bullshit your parents do some times. Your parents can get away with it because they are your parents but I will be damned if another boy your age does it.
Tell Mike. I know he can't get down to where you live instantly but he should be able to help with something hell let him talk on the phone with Mike. If he was anykind of boyfriend he would not let some other person do this to you. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:40 PM |
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Lauv Keiko
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asami, hiko has a good point here.
You know what I'd do though? I'll let everyone think I'm stupid, if it's for my safety, who cares if people think I'm crazy. You don't have to feel torn in this situation, you're kinda doing that dude a favor. Follow your instict here, if you have to kick his balls, do it, I say. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 05:42 PM |
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asami, i know the word has been hinted at it but i think it is best to be said;
sweetie, if he is allowed to continue he will end up raping you. this is not one of those things that goes away if you ignore it. it is not something you can deal with later. he will hurt you very badly if you keep letting him do more and more to you without putting him in check. get off the computer right now, go tell your parents and your brother. if they do not believe you immediately go to the cops and let them know /everything/ that is going on. you need to do this /right now/. this is important asami, i will not tolerate it if in a couple days we get a lai post from you from the hospital or worse, if we never hear from you again | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 06:01 PM |
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Merlin
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I really don't care about a felony record. If she's being harassed by some dick with legs I'll be her older brother and whoop the motherfucker to the ground. Hell if I could, I'd let her stay at my place until all of this shit blows over. Pretty much whoopin' someone's ass is a last resort if he doesn't listen. A defensive measure. Like, decides to intrude into her room and do shit. . . I'm allowed to. Body guards do it all the time. I'm not going to kill him. Just greatly harm or slightly maim him. . . XD in all seriousness, I would really like to take out 20 years of anger. . . People like him are the shadow of the dirt I walk on.
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![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 07:34 PM |
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Yokuutsu
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Hell, I don't even know you, or where you live, but this makes me want to say come over here, you can stay here and if he comes here...Cops. Cops have nothing to do around here. They might enjoy me calling them to get someone off my property.
Sleep with a knife, in case what Poggio talked about...if he attempts it. Stabbing is legal when it comes to that-remember that. Or call for someone to get you for you to spend the whatever. Considering that he's that creepy, you don't want to walk there-he might follow you. (I understand if this is not possible) If it isn't possible-move that bookshelf you talked about earlier and still sleep with the knife. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-24-2012, 10:09 PM |
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Quiet Man Cometh
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I'd avoid the knife in favour of something more simple and less immediately dangerous. Every self defense teacher I've heard from has advised never carrying a knife unless a: you know how to use it, and b: you are sure he doesn't. Otherwise the situation can get worse if he somehow ends up with it instead of you.
I'd agree to tell your mom, tell your brother, and otherwise be vocal about it. Even if they don't believe you, the friend is going to have to stop at some point if you keep saying that he's bothering you, especially as it should become apparent that he's intentionally bugging you and everyone know that you don't like it. He might be counting on your being quiet about it. | ||||
![]() | Posted 10-25-2012, 12:51 AM |
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