[Yokuutsu]

Gotta find a buddy first. That's the problem. Especially after what one of my rl friends said....I'm not big on being buddy buddy with anyone. (Though that's not anything to do with this website really)

[littl3chocobo]

oh... i don't know then ;^; i am only good at being that way with partners

[Kali_Namir]

I've just run out of a lot of active places to post. I tend to stick to the two charities I'm with, the few quests I've taken up residency in, and a couple other random places. Other than that I've become a lurker of sorts having to avoid a few places (and people) cause I've been blacklisted or asked not to post there...

[littl3chocobo]

well you don't create drama anymore by hanging out with others who do si /i/ have no issue with you at least, though for a time the corral had a blacklist with a whole slew of peple because someone said something and like five people were pming me and having fits in the thread >>;

[Kali_Namir]

I never really got an answer for why I was asked not to post in certain places, even though on my end the drama was over and done with and I was trying to regain a posting place. Unfortunately, real life decided to intervene and it blew up in my face again, so I tend to avoid any places I've been asked to stay out of, and try not to post in many new locations for fear of being asked randomly to leave after just saying a few normal things.

[littl3chocobo]

because you were part of a group of peole who fought with each other, most people find it easier to tell everyone no instead of figuring out who said what and why and which fought and egged on and just hung out

[Kali_Namir]

I was under the belief that everyone was trying to keep it in the past and that all of us were of the opinion that we would all be civil in other's threads out of respect. But when you are not given the chance to show people that you can give respect when it is due, then people just avoid you. I'm pretty sure people still avoid me because of the past even though the original matter at fault has been resolved since all parties involved are now friends again and have realized just how childish it was. I just never really got a chance to join many threads because of that. So basically I stay out of the way of people who I feel don't like me and will never give me a chance to prove them wrong. Unfortunately, that's quite a few people, so I keep my residency where it is, has, and will be welcome.

[littl3chocobo]

i did not know you lot made up

[Kali_Namir]

Yeah, the original issue is, and has been for roughly 4 months now, resolved, and put in the past. Unfortunately, not many people know that because those of us that were involved were scorned and dismissed by other users to the point of avoiding threads that were not their own or threads where they may be asked to stay away simply because due to one incident users assumed, with no real right to do so, they would automatically start issues elsewhere.

[littl3chocobo]

dude on /that/ issue i can disagree, i was told days in advance that you lot were causing trouble before the fights broke out

[Kali_Namir]

I was unaware at the time that it was truly anyone else's business and was not aware that we would become scorned by the entire site because of an issue over two words and a phrase that were unknowingly offensive. I feel that if anything, the parties involved should have been informed that everyone was being "warned" to avoid them.

The only reason I didn't leave Trisphee when I was being scorned and felt safe in pretty much NO thread that was not my own or Hyjin's was because some people decided to question about both sides, instead of taking advice from those not within the actual issue.

[Fenris]

Well one of the biggest problems, we have an event almost ready to go. BUT Coda moved making the discussion on coding and who it was going too rather difficult to achieve for two weeks. It's something that couldn't be helped and now the coding is being worked on. The items are done, the writing is done, and some of us are working on a number of other things as well to try and get users back around. I have a mini common update almost done, working on a mini token update, on top of monthlies and anka egg items. I wish things were coming out faster but as I am about to lose two pixelists (as far as I know) who have been on leave, one pixelist waiting for their computer back, one new pixelist, and the other on leave. The ability to finish items by anyone other than myself is few and far between. I also have 2 other pixel projects for trisphee I am working on on top of all this. My plate is quite full, and this does not include the help with writing and event coordination I dabble in. We are getting stuff done, and getting it ready to come out. Its just not as fast as we'd like it to be.

[Kali_Namir]

I look forward to new stuff and a new event! But don't rush Fen Fen, we don't want you to get overwhelmed.

[littl3chocobo]

none of this i knew actually o_o; though i am glad to have been told, though is there any way to hire a pixelist? someone whose sole job is to pixelize items?

[Batty]

I've been hard at work, and when I'm not doing that, I'm spending as much time as I can with my famfam.

... That, and the damned internet keeps going out. ><;;


And yeah, theres a lot going on behind the scenes that, of course, no one knows about. A lot of ups and downs in the last two or so months, with things that couldn't be helped. I'm sure everything will start picking up again soon, if not, I'll have to chain everyone to walls and FORCE them to post. =]

[Belial]

I'm a single parent and with a kid to raise, finding time to get on here as much as I would like is a challenge.
I do donate as much as I can because I would like this site to grow and be amazing.
This summer he has a lot of summer classes and camps so, that's why I'm not on.
And the friend who got me here isn't on anymore, I don't know many people aside from Batty.

Lurking just seems safer.