[Lauv Keiko]

well, okay.

so here's the whole thing.
I'm a fresh graduate, two months after my graduation I got me a job as an english tutor for koreans. I earned money mainly to give myself confidence and to help out my family with all the expenses in this house. Everything went well even if my sister(special case) doesn't have a job and that her twin was still looking for a job also my brother wasn't earning well. So basically, me, my brother and parents are helping out each other with bills and stuff at home even when I and my brother earned less.
My parents have jobs enough to sustain us for years.

Then I got a new job, higher salary than my old job (I'm a tech support for comcast, btw). However, it seemed like I'm the only person paying all the bills for this family and the rest of them are doing their job yet I see and feel no contribution at all. It felt as if I've all the responsibility for this family.
My dad told me once when I was in college, "I won't ask money from you when you get a job. You save what you earn and take master's degree."
But what's happening now is that he asks money from me EVERY salary day, and he sometimes would force me to give it to him, and to think he has a job and he also holds mini business. That should hold him up and not have him running after me for money.
I hate it because he has lied to me a dozen times just so he could get 20% from my salary and he would guilt-trip me into it sometimes. He would also act sickly and shit and he knows I am easily taken away with it. He has hit me a couple of times already because I acted like a total bitch to him. He should know by now that I DISLIKE him, no wait, I LOATHE him. He's so insensitive.
He always tells me to stop wasting my money on useless shit...in my head, well if you stop bumming money off of me then I'd have saved a thousand bucks already and invested it on my plans for higher education, asshole!

until now, I'm still not talking to him. I posted in my facebook profile asking my friends to suggest me a good place to live, because I'm fucking leaving this shithole, for real.

[littl3chocobo]

have you tried giving it a week for him to see what an asset you are or is that not a viable option? can you couch-surf for a paycheck?

[Lauv Keiko]

not even possible because he always fishes out money from me EVERY week.
I kept telling him I've no money, but the ass won't stop.

and couch-surf? O_o

[littl3chocobo]

spend a few days on a friend's couch

[Lauv Keiko]

I'm actually thinking about going to my gay friend's house and just pay him monthly...
I have to talk to him though, next time.

[littl3chocobo]

would you be put on the lease?

[Lauv Keiko]

I suppose he would, which I wouldn't mind. Most probably he'll just have me pay him 15% of my monthly salary.

and I spend 75% of my salary when I'm home.

[littl3chocobo]

if you are not on the lease he could get in trouble

[Lauv Keiko]

he lives with his mom, who's not around 60% of the time xD;
but hopefully he'd understand me when I tell him the reason why I need a new place.

[littl3chocobo]

hopefully, but if not what is your backup plan?

[Lauv Keiko]

well, as much as possible, avoid everyone in this house. Or wait, gather them all up and tell them what I feel.
If that's impossible then, back up plan 2 is to stay here, but never open my wallet no matter how many times they ask.

[littl3chocobo]

get a deposit account that you cannot withdraw from? if you cant have it they can't have it, set it for like 6 months or something

[Lauv Keiko]

I think that's a better idea. I might have to go around the city first then ask what I need to sign up for, how many months until I can get my shit.

and you're right, if I can't have it, then they can't. I mean, this is mine anyways.

[littl3chocobo]

*nods* exactly dude

[Lauv Keiko]

I hate the fact that I'm the one spending shit for them and they've the guts to be mad at me for not complying to my "obligation"
fuckers.

[Dawn]

-flops back in- eh.. what I miss? o.o;