[Pocket]

I have bad baby envy..

I don't know why but I get in these funks where all I can think of is why is it not my time...? Then I get comfortable with "it will happen when its my time" then something triggers the baby envy again..


Advise please? Or thing that I can look into thats not too pricey to help.

[Muff Muff]

If you are wanting it on your own, look to doners. :) I think that's the best time to start is when the baby envy feeling comes. I had a lot of my friends telling me I'd be having a kid soon and I was like..nah.. lol But now I'm here.

[Pocket]

Ya... but that feeling of a lil ball is gone..and I'm feeling normal again..

[Muff Muff]

It comes and goes, it did for me. We were talking about it, and I didn't think it'd happen as fast as it did. Hell, I was looking into doners at first until he said hell no. lol

[Pocket]

I would feel right using a donor... I wouldn't want my hubby to feel weird or anything.

[Muff Muff]

Have you talked to him about it? I was scared to death to tell Ian I was thinking about getting a doner.

[Pocket]

No.. its one of those things were it'll happen when the time is right and now we are trying to save up for buying a house..

[Muff Muff]

Ah..yeah we're content in an apartment. lol And the main reason I brought it up to him is because we had a slip up with the protection and neither of us flipped out, so that was sort of a sign.

[Pocket]

Ah. See we don't use anything...and ya..nothing.

[Muff Muff]

Seems to happen when you're not trying at all, to the point you forget and give up.

[Pocket]

I hope..lol.

Its just frustrating cuz I think something is wrong with me..

[Muff Muff]

I've been worried my whole life that something was wrong with me, and when it took us so long I was really starting to worry. Sometimes it takes people YEARS to get pregnant, its normal. But if you do have the time or money you can always have it checked. Both of you. Could be either side.

[Pocket]

We had talked about getting our fertility checked and he wasn't to thrilled with a needle getting stuck down there...

[Muff Muff]

Oh my. lol Yeah I would be a little unnerved as well. >< But things need to get done! lol

[Pocket]

Lol ya. I would think they'd have other methods... I don't know how they;d check me though..

[Muff Muff]

I am not sure with that one, but I am sure you can find it online. lol And there's gotta be other ways for him. o.o