[Natsunaine]

So, I was on facebook earlier today, and I was messaged by a friend of mine who is now an ex-freind whom wanted another persons number and because I dont share peoples numbers I got this..

Cole WeekleyHey dude what's chases number






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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoSorry dude i dont give away other peoples #








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Cole Weekleyman fuck u








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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoLol.








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Cole Weekleyits not fucking funny dick head im looking for something








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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoSo? That has nothing to do with me for one for two, i dont give out others numbers because i respect there right to privacy.








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Cole Weekleywhat the fuck eeverr you annoying fucking bum have fun living off of eveeryone else in your life you pathetic leach








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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoLmao you know i live in an apartmeny i pay for right? xD

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Cole Weekleyit doesnt matter if u do i want you to know if you think your a man your not you are pathetic and cant man up and get all your shit from dylans and so i set it all on fire even your gay book bag and that no one here ever liked not me not dylan not dariel not omega not chris not joe not momma the most loving women in the world didnt like you i hope you end up like your parents







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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoLol your sad and pathetic kid.








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Cole Weekleyoh and joe has your tv and atleast i have parents that dont have to kill themselves to get away from me








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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoI know he does im not stupid i just dont give a fuck xD








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Cole Weekleywell it seems your parent dont either =)








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Michael JackskellingtonMadhatter D'amattoLol, Could be, but thats in the past.









Cole Weekleyatleast my past can still tell me they love me

So, During the confrontation I tried my best to stay calm and not let it get to me, But the thought that someone would have the gaul to say something like this just floors me.. For those of you who don't know both of my parents commited suicide in the year of 2010 when I was 17 on different months...

I guess the main part of this vent is, I try my hardest to be nice to people, I try my hardest to be social, When others joke around with me I joke back. When others have problems I try to help, When things are said behind others back I let them know whats going on, I dont claim to be the most perfect person in the world no one is, everyone has things that they are not proud of about themselves and their pasts.. But what do I do to deserve to be treat like this? My god.. I feel that I am to passive for my own good I am so angry right now I could knock the daylights out of this kid but I wont because thats not who I am I bottle up my anger and find out other ways to vent it... Like what I am typing now..

I guess What I am trying to ask and say.. Is am I really that bad to handle that things like this are needed to be said..?

[Demonskid]

To be honest you handled it very well in my opinion. He is the one who should respect your decision and go ask someone else for the number. what he said was just absolutely wrong in many ways. Time to add him to your ignore list and if he keeps contacting you, report him to facebook for harassment.

[Kaguya]

You done the right thing Natsu, you didn't sink to his level and for that you should be proud of yourself. I am another that doesn't give out another person's details unless they have given me permission before hand, because I go absolutely livid when it's done to me. You will be better off without someone like that person around you, as only an immature fool resorts to insults and opening old wounds such as that.

I find in time karma has a way of catching up to people, and with the way that former friend of you acts, I'd say sit back and grab some popcorn because when karma catches up to him it's going to be a doosy of a show. I agree with DK remove and block him as a friend on facebook and if he still continues to harass you report him be it to the site in question or to the police. I would say when he does contact keep a note of when and how and if it's online save the messages or screenshot them to show at a later date, it'll build a stronger case.

[woopdidoodoo]

gosh Natsu I'm so sorry he's a jerk!! you handled that better than what I would have. Personally I would delete him from my facebook page and not be in contact with him at all. He's worse than a illmannered little pig that needs something shoved in his piehole.

[Poggio]

Well Natsu, I understand that your ex friend is being insensitive, but did it ever occur to you to ask the person whose number he wanted if you could give it out? I am sure that would have avoided this whole argument instead of shutting him out completely and leading to him being defensive. As a person that uses laughter for defense I can see how a simple lol can seem patronizing.

That being said why is he able to contact you if you are ex best friends? I am sure your closest friends know the situation and you can unfriend him so he can not send you a message and hurt you again. No one on no social network talks to me unless I want them to. If you are not willing to talk simply say I can't help, sorry and leave it.

My advice for something like this in the future is to either ignore it if it seems like the guy is trying to get a rouse, or answer the best you can and if you can see they are getting defensive drop it.

[Natsunaine]

@Pogs, Actually, I had asked the person, and they ask me explictly not to give away the number, but I refuse to give numbers away even if I have said persons permission because in past situations even when I asked later on when the person gotten annoying or out of hand I was the one blamed for giving the number away. As, For the Lol, being Patronizing, at first I thought he was kidding around, because he has been known to say something like that and be joking about it.

As, for the ex friend, At the time of contact I still considered him a friend, I was saying after the situation had occured I no longer considered him a freind. I did remove him from my friend list when the fight occured, but due to certian reasons my privacy on Facebook is set to anyone can message me, So even if I had unfreinded him he was still allowed to message me and at the time I was on Face book mobile away from the computer and I had yet to figure out how to block someone on the mobile app, I could not have turned off my phone due to the fact I use it for work calls, and this is just a section of the conversation there is one point where I completely ignore him and all the guy does it continually message me... I did eventually block him but that was not until I had a chance to get to a computer and block him fromt here. .-.