[SolaceXxX]

Solace will stay with you^-^

[Arikana]

Originally Posted by SolaceXxX

I'm doing good. How are you?

Sorry the answer is late. I've been busy helping my grandparents^-^

I'm doing good as well. Working on some real life and Tris stuff right now. >w<

No worries, real life should always come first. :3 Especially when either the elderly or younglings are involved. ;)

[SolaceXxX]

@Arikana: That's cool.

Yes, especially since my grandpa has Alzheimer's :(

[Arikana]

I know how you feel. My paternal grandmother has Alzheimer's as well. :3

[SolaceXxX]

Well, on top of that my grandpa on my mom's side doesn't remember us either, but I think that's a combination of Dementia and old age. He's in his 90s.

[Arikana]

Yeah, I know the feeling. Alzheimer's can get quite bad. I've seen firsthand what it has done to my grandmother and wish it upon no one. Not even being able to eat is quite bad. :|

[SolaceXxX]

So far he can still eat, but his temper is horrible when he gets angry. The simplest things get him upset and my family and I are scared that one day he'll get so upset that he will hurt my grandmother.

[Arikana]

Perhaps you and your family should work on moving him into geriatric care facility? It would probably be best to have him in a place where there will be people to look after him twenty-four seven.

[SolaceXxX]

Yeah, he was in one after he got surgery. After his recovery time was up they didn't want to let him out and they contacted my aunt about things instead of my grandma because the care givers thought that she should be in the home too. We don't trust them anymore, so we won't put him back in there unless we absolutely have to.

[Arikana]

Well, it would probably help him if your grandmother was in the geriatric home as well. But if he can and will still eat, then the need is not as great for him to be in one just yet. It's best for my grandmother to be in one as she needs IVs to stay alive and neither my family or relatives have the large amounts time necessary to care for her. I can't wait till late April/early May when I get to fly to Hong Kong so that I may visit her. >w< I worry for her life and hope she won't pass away anytime soon.

[SolaceXxX]

That's what worries me about my grandparents is them dying out of the blue. But for now we just keep visiting and taking care of them while we have the chances to.

[Asami]

Originally Posted by SolaceXxX

Solace will stay with you^-^

ONE OF US. ONE OF US. ONE OF US

Sorry couldn't resist that xD

[SolaceXxX]

It's all good^-^
I definitely feel like I fit in here than some of the other sites I visit.

[Rem]

Hey welcome to the site, looks like you've got a good avi going so far. Anything in the shop you've got your eye on?

[Mystery]

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