[Serra Britt]

Hmm...stuff happens and I kind of think you both need to talk about it once things calm down some.

[Kali_Namir]

Yeah...I just wish I knew if I completely screwed up the one amazing thing in my life...

I may also be trying my damnedest not to cry because I really kinda hate myself right now...

[Serra Britt]

Hey. A relationship is not just one way. I think it requires communication and compromise from both people for it to work.

Hence my recommendation that you both talk after things calm down some.

[Kali_Namir]

I'm really hoping I get a response soon...

But I'm pretty sure I just massively screwed up...

[Serra Britt]

Well I hope so too. I'm afraid there isn't much I can do except emotional support.

[Kali_Namir]

I know...

[Serra Britt]

-huggles the Kali-

[Kali_Namir]

He's mad at me...but I really was making dinner...it took us literally an hour to cook dinner...

Although the eggplant cakes were totally worth it...

[Serra Britt]

That sounds yummy.

If he's angry fine...that's valid. I don't think he'll be angry forever. Stuff happens. Personally I've gone more than a week with no contact with certain people and while maybe I think they don't like me anymore, but when I see them again I'm happy...just me I guess.

[Kali_Namir]

He's got every right to be upset...

I'm just glad he's texting me so I know he at least doesn't hate me...

[Serra Britt]

I dunno, I guess.

I'm glad you're speaking again.

[Kali_Namir]

Yeah...but now he said I've lost his trust...I just don't know what to do...he is literally the only thing that makes me happy...

[Serra Britt]

...it sounds like there must be more to it than what happened last night.

Do you mind telling me the reason he says that?

[Kali_Namir]

I don't really know...he said it was just because of tonight...

[Serra Britt]

Kali, I'm going to be blunt about this, and this is just my opinion and I don't hate hyjin at all so here we go.

He's being childish and immature. One night, and missing one call should NOT break a relationship. Nor should it break trust. STUFF HAPPENS. Relationships require a certain amount of trust and part of it (I think) is knowing that sometimes stuff happens that's out of our control so unless it becomes a habit, I don't think one time should be a basis to lose trust for ANY reason, at least not on this particular issue.

I don't hate hyjin and I don't want to hurt you Kali but this is my unedited thoughts on this.

[Kali_Namir]

I know...and I think he's starting to realize that a bit...