[Helsinki Harlot]

I was talking a few days ago about cooking traditional Finnish foods? Finally got around to cooking the rhubarb pie and it turned out amazing, just rose a little too high at the center.

It's one in the many recipes I've set out for myself. I think next time I'm gonna make pea soup. And then... I don't know what the english for it is but Here's a picture tho'.

I am so excited. Especially since Sarah gets paid Wed. so we can actually spend a little money on groceries.

[Helsinki Harlot]

Originally Posted by Lunaryon

Ehhh... If you're going to be marrying Mike, you should move in with him at least six months before so you get used to living together, and so that you kind find the little things that are only noticed about a person by living with them.

Quoted for truth.

Tho'... 21's a little early to be married. ._. If it happens; great. Just, don't gun for it. That expectation is absolutely ruining one of my friends relationships. She's only 19 and she wants to be engaged right now and married in a year or so. It's stressing the hell out of him.

[Asami]

Well he already spends the weekend with me when he can
So we are pretty used to it so far

But honestly I feel so bad for my little brother because hes in highschool and stuff
so its worse on him really
plus he has only one outfit
because my mom hates buying stuff for us
She goes and gets herself $200 purses yet can buy us clothes
I have 2 shorts and 1 pants and a handful of shirts. Christian literally has only one pair of pants and one or two shirts
he always wears the same jacket all the time...
And we each have one pair of shoes.. while my mom has around 20 pairs and yells at me for wearing them... u.u I cant wait till I'm gone

They tell me to get a job but that's the hardest thing here. They don't believe that ive put in around 5 or more applications to each establishment in my town.
I got yelled at today for that. So I'm a little depressed...

[Asami]

Originally Posted by Helsinki Harlot

Quoted for truth.

Tho'... 21's a little early to be married. ._. If it happens; great. Just, don't gun for it. That expectation is absolutely ruining one of my friends relationships. She's only 19 and she wants to be engaged right now and married in a year or so. It's stressing the hell out of him.

I'm only going to do a court wedding. I could care less about big fancy events. :/
So I wont be so stressed out when it happens.
but hey everyone is different just because they are like that doesn't mean I will also it could but anything is better than what I'm going through atm

[Helsinki Harlot]

Asa; If your brothers a minor (which I assume it is) you really should tell someone about that. You're old enough to where they don't have a legal obligation to you anymore.

Tho'.. I only have one pair of shoes and have only had one pair of shoes for about... forever. I have to be forced into shoes. Until they're pulling apart in the soles they're good. edit... I also only have one pair of jeans that I wear.... no shorts. Huh. Maybe I should expand my wardrobe. But I'm kinda okay with it. Your mom's stupid tho'. Clothing is kind of a basic thing to provide for your kid.

And ALL parents don't get how hard it is to find a fucking job. The one line I hate the most "when I was your age" well fuck them. Our parents generation and our grandparents are a good chunk of the reason we can't get a god damn job. It's not the same world, you can't pay your bills on a paper route. =/

Well... if that's what ya'll are planning then there's that, hopefully it works out the way you've planned. My very opinionated views on relationships can take their happy ass back to my brain. I really hope that works out for ya.

[Asami]

I know I'm just saying.. I wish I had more clothes so they don't ruin as fast.
You.know how you wear something over and over it starts to get ratty and ruined? That's my entire wardrobe :/
I wouldn't even mind if she didn't buy herself a bajillion things and shove it in our faces. She really does that. Shove it in our face. :/
but honestly if I could id buy Christian clothes.... I wish I could

//sigh
I wish they could understand
they mainly want me to get a job to pay for their food...
They aleady make two of my brothers pay part of their checks to them u.u
its not really fair..

I know lol
I don't have a fairytale view of relationships
I know it will be very hard
but I know we can pull through it

Edit: oh and the only reason I have two shorts now is because I had to fight for them...

[Helsinki Harlot]

>.< Yeah, some of my favorite shirts have huge holes in them that I have no idea how they got there!

And yeah; that's a bad mother, shit, a bad human being. Someone should gut her. :3 You don't treat your kids like that.

Your two other brothers, they legal adults or minors too? 'Cause it they're legal adults, best thing to do is leave. Other than that -shrugs- if they're living in your parents household you kinda have no choice. (Parents shouldn't charge you money but legally they can.) If they're minors than really, bring it up to someone. I think family is worth getting other people into trouble for.

And I'll keep my fingers crossed. And it's not so much about the fairytale aspect but the age aspect. You don't seem like a person who has their head in the clouds so I'm not worried about unrealistic expectations. Just be careful, things can get expensive. Hope it works out tho'.

[Asami]

Yeah same... someone slipped buffalo sauce on one of my favorite shirts that ive had since 8th grade and its stained. I was so sad... ): one less shirt I have now....

They are adults ones like 26 and the others 20
but yeah idk I just don't like it... :/ it seems wrong. If they need money my mom should get a job
they say I don't try. She tried once and didn't try anymore after that.

I know but we already have a house that's fully paid for in Florida. So we are okay there. His grandpa is giving it to him when hes ready to take it.

[Lunaryon]

You should talk to those two brothers of yours. Do they live with your parents? If not, see about moving in with them. If they do, talk to them about stop paying your mom and use the money to get a house so that you all can get away from those horrid people.
Oh. And on the day you leave, sock your mom in the face for me. I REALLY despise bullies. And that's what your mother is doing to you and your brothers.

[Asami]

I don't think my brothers would be willing to do that
my mom has them whipped ya know

I plan on punching her hard.

[Lunaryon]

WOOT! Down with the bullies!

[Asami]

Yep
oh on a good note
anyone else heard of krispy kreme??

[Lunaryon]

Doughnuts are good. I'm kinda dissapointed that the Krispy Kreme near me stopped with the free doughnut thing.

[Asami]

Oh no I'm talking about the up and rising youtube rapper
he just released a video... made me cry) : poor guy
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3uPzBiwl1X4

Anyways he does these really catchy songs and I mean yeah at first you're like omg this is stupid but man it grows on you...
I listen to them all the time and love it
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=plPsnWFng0w
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=loIUe0iCHBE

[Ultima]

Originally Posted by Asami

anyone else heard of krispy kreme??

YES IT IS FARKING DELICIOUS.

Oh, I just the the above post ....

I like doughnuts better D<

[Asami]

D8 is everyone going to think my sig is about the doughhnut shop?