[Joey]

I'm not good at advice much, but best plan is to try to change to a different service provider like what others have said. So that way you don't need to change your number, but then you can block his number with the new provider. As for facebook, like others have said, block him and report him for harassment. Lastly, if it keeps getting worse, try to get a restraining order, so that way he should be able to stop, and show that you are serious. Also, your current boyfriend can help too by telling your ex to stop harassing you, and try to put fear into your ex.

[Glitch]

I don't think cricket does that? D: and he's changed his number once so far. I just got a new $200 phone XD He's also trying to friend me on facebook, and sending me emails on this website i'm on. xp all of a sudden!

Today he is asking me a series of questions revolving around, "what didn't you like about me while we were together?"

[Joey]

I see. That is annoying that he is doing that. I wish he would stop and give it up already. :/

Anyways, I don't know if this would work, but maybe try to lie to him, and say something like that you have a new phone number and the service on your old phone will expire. So, maybe that way, he will text the fake number, etc. and probably leave you alone too with the texting, etc.

As for facebook, block him and report him too for harassment. By blocking him, he cannot see your profile, nor he can find you on facebook, etc. And you don't see his profile either, or his harassing messages.

[CupcakeDolly]

I still say let him know that you're on to him and that his childish little tricks aren't going to work. He thinks he's being sneaky and manipulative, but really it's very obvious that it's all about the chase for him. Once he actually gets you, it'll likely go back to the way that it was before you two broke up.

[Glitch]

my bf says it's the whole, "they climb the mountain once and then they think they own it" complex.

[CupcakeDolly]

True, guys do have a tendency to be possessive, even toward girls that they've left behind.

[Desmond]

I fit gets really bad I suggest you contacting your local police to see what type of legal action that you can take. Because at this point it seems like he is stalking you which can be dangerous.

[Jurinjo]

He still persists? Well considering how your current bf is acting towards this I'm thinking quite highly of him. Random and others have got a good idea. Make a confrontation with one of your stronger friends (as in one willing to speak and not back down). And especially take legal action to keep him away if that does not work, or you'd rather not force a confrontation. Your description of him is pretty scary. But do something girl, because he is making you unhappy. Which no doubt makes your current bf unhappy too. =( Good luck, praying for you.

[Gallowsraven]

Originally Posted by Winter

my bf says it's the whole, "they climb the mountain once and then they think they own it" complex.

I like his style there :D

But he's still at it? He's starting to get creepy in my opinion and i don't know this bloke. Pity guys can't get the message the first time huh. Save all the messages and whatnot though, ok, because if he does get worse to the extent that legal action is required at least you've got something to back you up.

[Vanitas]

Sounds like your ex is just trying to ruin everything with your new boyfriend. I'd stay away from bringing it up to your current boyfriend, he may think you still have feelings for your ex and you definitely don't want that to happen or see your current boyfriend get into a fight with your ex. :/
I know ignoring isn't helping you and you mentioned that changing your number would bother you, but what bothers you more? Changing your number? Or your ex continuing to contact you and cause your anxiety to rise?
I definitely think you should get your number changed if it is causing you emotional pain like that...
Don't even respond to his texts and try to laugh them off, maybe even change his name in your phone to something funny or stupid to help ease the anxiety and not answer him.
You definitely don't need to let him ruin your life and don't stay stuck in the past, don't let him ruin everything for you. You're in control and you DON'T have to respond back to him.

[Desmond]

Ohhh, I like the change name tactic Moon. I have a friend who gives EVERYONE weird names in her phone, including her own mother.

I still really think that some legal action could be taken at this point. If you have documented cases of his obnoxious behavior, it'll help showing them of what's been happening.

[Glitch]

Well the skinny now is --

I gave in and talked to him after he went to all this trouble of emailing me and texting me begging me to talk to him or he'd esplode.

And now somehow I am his go-to person for relationship woes.

However, his last girlfriend apparently took up your advice about the police.

As awkward as it was at first I will say seeing him being this way over some other girl has really helped me. I am no longer anxious when he texts me - just occasionally exasperated. I don't have any lingering feelings beyond what I feel for any friend. He likes to poke and prod occasionally at me but that's life.

My bf naturally peeks over my shoulder at just about anything lol - and he read some of my exes ims and said he related. He said when he broke up with his last girlfriend he realized he had no friends and would still try to talk to her because she was the person he had left, the only person that knew him and could relate with him.

He was sending kinky things a few months ago but that has stopped and maybe he realized he does tend to ostracize himself. I don't know.

[Serra Britt]

I'm glad it doesn't make you panicky anymore. And I'm glad you don't have to change the phone number that you really like either :3

[Joey]

That's good to hear things are changing and that you are feeling better ^^

[Ae86]

I always Falcon Punch my ex's away. Works 60% of the time.... Every time..

[gremlin]

Why don't you just block him?
Block him from emailing you, messaging you, etc.
Then you won't receive anything from him ever again and you can feel better.