[Kitalpha Hart]

So yeah, if you do use it to go by what you said you're homosexual heteromantic
Many aces on the one discord server I'm on use it, so I've seen greyace biromantic and other such orientations, and there's nothing that says your sexual and romantic orientations must match

[Espy]

There are a LOT of ace people who aren’t aromantic, and a lot of het folx who are panromantic...

I think I used to be more demi, but of recent years, I’ve slid even further towards ace. Could be my meds. Not that it matters.

[Stabbsworth]

meds do sometimes decrease libido, from what i've heard.

[Stabbsworth]

Originally Posted by Ava

Hey friends!

I'm more of an ally, I think.
I don't know where I fall on the spectrum. :(
I'm more sexually attracted to women, but not romantically attracted to women....
I'm more romantically attracted to men, but not really sexually attracted to them....

I find sex with women to be much more pleasurable vs. sex with men??

I don't feel like "bisexual" is the label for me because I'm not romantically attracted to women, only sexual...
But again, not sexually attracted to men?


CONFUSE!!!

i mean, it's possible that you could be bisexual biromantic, but with a heavy sexual preference for women and with a heavy romantic preference to men.

there's also nonbinary people, and bisexual people can be attracted to them too.

[Merskelly Metalien]

>w> I sometimes find myself looking at muscular people, but only because

1. I wanna be strong like them with some build, but not that much build.

2. I admire how hard they must work to maintain their health.

and 3. I picture them looking like an epic statue, with kittens or something delicate in a balanced harmony. OR with another jacked person like a rival beast! >:D

[Den]

NGL, there's aesthetics and such that make me go "Ooo, they're pretty". be it male, female, nonbinary, or any combination of the above. but that's just aesthetics, and what I find visually pleasing to me. like, Angelina Jolie? she's got very distinctive and somewhat strong facial features. She's pretty, but when she is in her Maleficent look? Hot Damn. Really draws my attention that way. for guys.. Brendan Fraiser comes to mind, but less of a "Hot Damn" reaction and more of a "I want to give him a hug and hang out with him as a friend" reaction. >.> that's kinda my reaction to most guys who I know are "safe" to be around.

On occasion, that overlaps with a "Hot Damn" reaction, but it takes a very specific set of facial features. Very expressive eyes and eyebrows, kind of a roughed-up look to the guy's face, like he's been through some shit, a distinctive nose, pretty full lips, a full beard... doesn't necessarily have to have a strong jaw, and actually, the less 'strong' the jaw, the better, imo. an example, even though he's not a real, flesh-and-blood person? Caleb Widowgast from Critical Role, or Fjord from the same show. both of them have very expressive faces, though Fjord's got a stronger jawline than Caleb. Mollymauk Tealeaf would also be a good example.

A good example of "I want to hug him and hang out with him"? Caduceus Clay from Critical Role. though a lot of that reaction to him is due to his personality, enough of it is related to his appearance that I feel it fits.

It's a similar reaction I get with Jester Lavorre, also from Critical Role, because she just comes across as someone who would be nice to hug. Beauregard Lionett (despite the name, Beau is female) and Yasha both fall more into the "Hot Damn" categories, because they both have strong, distinctive features. Yasha also falls into the "hug" category. it's harder for me to find IRL examples of the "hug" category for ladies, tbph.

[Stabbsworth]

ngl, i think it depends more on how people act for me? like, if you're generally nice to me or somewhat decent, then i'll probably feel a mild attraction.

[Kitalpha Hart]

Originally Posted by Merskelly Metalien

3. I picture them looking like an epic statue, with kittens or something delicate in a balanced harmony.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B35BaBXJ0X_
So this?

[mdom]

Originally Posted by Voidbarker

if you're generally nice to me or somewhat decent, then i'll probably feel a mild attraction.

me, my whole life, which has lead to constant disappointment

[Unicornlynn]

Guys so I love you all how you all are. You guys are great. You know I really didn’t think this many people would actually answer. I usually get teased or made fun off for admitting I and bisexaly.

[Merskelly Metalien]

Originally Posted by Kitalpha Hart

https://www.instagram.com/p/B35BaBXJ0X_
So this?

<x'D AAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAAAWAA!~ *smooshed face in pillow repeatedly* Gyeeeeeu! I love that so much!! Hahaha! He looks so happy and the kitty is so happy and both are precious omg!! Thank you for sharing! <x}

[Kitalpha Hart]

Uni, those are trashcan people

Glad to share it, mersk

[Merskelly Metalien]

*agrees with Kit* >:c Ye! *nod* Bisexuals are totes valid! I had a couple of Bi friends that were both adorable people! :]

@ Kit: And he had tattoos and a biker beard! <x'D Tough guy kitty cuddle aaaa!~ I wanna put a blanket over them!

[Espy]

Originally Posted by Merskelly Metalien

>w> I sometimes find myself looking at muscular people, but only because

1. I wanna be strong like them with some build, but not that much build.

2. I admire how hard they must work to maintain their health.

and 3. I picture them looking like an epic statue, with kittens or something delicate in a balanced harmony. OR with another jacked person like a rival beast! >:D

That explains why you like my art :|

[Merskelly Metalien]

<x'3 Espy, you've combined the rivalry thing with flippin' robotics n' cool mechanical sh*t and now I can't NOT like it!

[Kitalpha Hart]

Same artist for Pixie and Brutus, too