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Zombification · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt the Merciless

......do it anyway <___<

This.

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:07 PM

LOL. Just one day be like, "Hmm... I want a girl, today."

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:12 PM

Why couldn't you be one of my parents? XD

I'm stuck living with my dad who hates that I crossdress and wants nothing to do with it. And while you can't expect everyone to be accepting of that stuff, it does suck when its your father and you're stuck living somewhere where you can't really be yourself e___e

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:17 PM

I understand. I was never really able to be myself around my parents, but that wasn't because they were disapproving... It's because...well. It's hard to explain. XD Let's just say, there are things about me that I don't feel my parents need to know about.

I could never tell my parents about the gender blindness and my pansexuality just because they wouldn't understand, and I didn't feel that anything would change if I told them. XD

But... I hope someday that you'll get to be yourself 100% of the time.

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:20 PM

Yeah that's a fairly easy thing to keep from them and still go on normally.
Its just awkward as hell because not only can I not dress the way I want, but I can't talk to my dad or stepmom about any gender/sexuality things because well..they don't like that stuff XD

My mom is more accepting, and has actually bought me a skirt, but its still kind of strange around her

Zombification · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:25 PM

Everyone around me besides my father (I think) knows I like girls. Baw. I told my mom recently. She just asked me some questions like whether I like girls or guys more. Haha.

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:28 PM

I didn't even know you liked girls until now XD

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:30 PM

@Matt
It's always strange talking to parents about sexuality and the like. It's kind of one of those you don't wanna know about your parent's sexuality and they don't wanna know about yours kind of deal.

My husband and I want to make sure that we raise a very understanding and tolerant child.

We still aren't sure how some things will be introduced, but we'll figure it all out eventually. :3

@Zombification
My mom onced asked if I liked girls. I said, "Yeah, why not?" XD

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:31 PM

Most likely the kid will be curious and ask you about stuff when they're young.
Well.. I don't know, that's what I did anyway XD

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:32 PM

Oh, the whole sexuality thing and what not will be no problem for us. Question like "Why are those two guys kissing?" and the like will be a breeze. My husband and I just...live an alternative lifestyle, and we've never had to deal with children around us. XD

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:33 PM

Mind if I ask what you mean by live an alternative lifestyle? o:

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:35 PM

Er... I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my husband. :3

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:37 PM

.________________.
You are so lucky XD
What role do you take?

Kitty Desu · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:40 PM

LOL. :'D I am my husband's pet. ♥

Matt the Merciless · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:40 PM

FFFFFFFFFFFF

You are so lucky XD
I haven't tried anything like that to know for sure, but I'm pretty sure that's the kind of relationship I'd like to have

Zombification · Posted 02-26-2011, 08:42 PM

Me too, Matt. x////x

		#50	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
LOL. Just one day be like, "Hmm... I want a girl, today."
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:07 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#51
	Why couldn't you be one of my parents? XD I'm stuck living with my dad who hates that I crossdress and wants nothing to do with it. And while you can't expect everyone to be accepting of that stuff, it does suck when its your father and you're stuck living somewhere where you can't really be yourself e___e
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:12 PM

		#52	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
I understand. I was never really able to be myself around my parents, but that wasn't because they were disapproving... It's because...well. It's hard to explain. XD Let's just say, there are things about me that I don't feel my parents need to know about. I could never tell my parents about the gender blindness and my pansexuality just because they wouldn't understand, and I didn't feel that anything would change if I told them. XD But... I hope someday that you'll get to be yourself 100% of the time.
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:17 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#53
	Yeah that's a fairly easy thing to keep from them and still go on normally. Its just awkward as hell because not only can I not dress the way I want, but I can't talk to my dad or stepmom about any gender/sexuality things because well..they don't like that stuff XD My mom is more accepting, and has actually bought me a skirt, but its still kind of strange around her
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:20 PM

		#54	Zombification Flesh Eating Cadaver
Everyone around me besides my father (I think) knows I like girls. Baw. I told my mom recently. She just asked me some questions like whether I like girls or guys more. Haha.
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:25 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#55
	I didn't even know you liked girls until now XD
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:28 PM

		#56	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
@Matt It's always strange talking to parents about sexuality and the like. It's kind of one of those you don't wanna know about your parent's sexuality and they don't wanna know about yours kind of deal. My husband and I want to make sure that we raise a very understanding and tolerant child. We still aren't sure how some things will be introduced, but we'll figure it all out eventually. :3 @Zombification My mom onced asked if I liked girls. I said, "Yeah, why not?" XD
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:30 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#57
	Most likely the kid will be curious and ask you about stuff when they're young. Well.. I don't know, that's what I did anyway XD
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:31 PM

		#58	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
Oh, the whole sexuality thing and what not will be no problem for us. Question like "Why are those two guys kissing?" and the like will be a breeze. My husband and I just...live an alternative lifestyle, and we've never had to deal with children around us. XD
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:32 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#59
	Mind if I ask what you mean by live an alternative lifestyle? o:
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:33 PM

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		#60	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
Er... I'm in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my husband. :3
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:35 PM

Matt the Merciless Decepticon			#61
	.________________. You are so lucky XD What role do you take?
		Posted 02-26-2011, 08:37 PM

		#62	Kitty Desu THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... gurgle
LOL. :'D I am my husband's pet. ♥
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:40 PM

		#64	Zombification Flesh Eating Cadaver
Me too, Matt. x////x
	Posted 02-26-2011, 08:42 PM