[McSwiggins]

Demonskid: Thats awesome! Is she having a boy or girl?
Hyjin: I never wanted kids in the first place but I wasnt careful. Now I like being father. Lol

[Demonskid]

My sister and I dont get along. if It weren't for my aunts passing info to mom just to hurt her, we woulda never known.

She was pregnant at the end of 15.. gave birth prematurely due to pre-eclampsia and blamed the baby's death on mom who was a whole state away. =/

that and I don't like kids so what gender the new one is isn't a concern for me... my only concern is, will it turn out to be a homicidal maniac or will it be gentle. Her first son threatened to cut their hands off with a cleaver for not letting him play outside. He's autistic so he didn't realize that mimicing his mothers evil ways was bad >-> She tried to cut my tongue out when i was 8

[hyjin]

I want a kid, but we are not ready for it yet lol. In the process of buying a house and we aint married yet

[McSwiggins]

Pre-eclampsia os scary. I feel bad she lost the baby, even if her kids turn out strange. My girlfriend has trouble carrying babies. With her ex, she miscarried 4 times. Thats why they broke their engagement. They lost feelings for each other from each miscarriage and eventually they didnt care for each other anymore. With me, she's had one kid before, Cian, and we almost lost him several times. The doctor told us more than once to not expect him to survive to his due date. He ended up having to come out 8 weeks early because his health was so bad that it was do or die. Had we not taken him out, he would not be here today. And now she is 26 weeks and Wednesday went into preterm labor. She hasnt delivered yet and is on bedrest but I am just hoping Noel (thats the baby) can stay put for at least another month. But, death of a child is hard, espcecially for the mother.
Jesus. Well, he's definitely got some issues to work through. I wonder why? Little kids arent viscous like that for no reason, they learn it from somewhere (I am assuming he is or was young at this point).

Well, anyway. How are you doing?

Hyjin: Yeah, its so much better to wait until you are ready. I was not ready to be a dad when I became one. I was 18, failing school and a heroin addict but the baby was my reason to straighten out and luckily, I was able to.

When you are ready, you enjoy the pregnancy more. :)

[Demonskid]

He was 15 when he threatened to cut off their hands >w> he's autistic so the way they act + his autism = serial killer in the making that just doesn't understand its bad. luckily his autism isnt THAT bad.. he knew better, but his new sibling might have a more worse off case of it..

The lady upstairs is very autistic, her own care takers call the cops on her on occasion cause she gets violent >->,

[McSwiggins]

Ah I see. My 16 year old has very bad autism. He cannot talk and it took him until he was 5 to walk. I had to place him in a home for children with developmental disorders because I could not give him all the attention and time he deserved because the woman I had married two years prior had just given birth to my twins. He was backtracking plus babies are loud and he couldnt take the volumes at which they would cry. People have given me flak and have even gone so far as to say I abandoned him. No, I put him somewhere stable where he could get better attention and help because he was not doing well. I had his best interest in mind and if that makes me a bad parent, then they have clearly not seen how some other kids are treated. He's doing a lot better now. He's progressed majorly in the 6 years he has lived there and his aides tell me he is a very bright kid and they love working with him. I stand by decision. I visit him on the weekends and will be seeing him tomorrow. He knows sign language and tells his aides that our visits are his favorite weekly events.

Its just too nad that your nephew is not getting the sort of treatment and help he needs and that that is how he is developing. That makes me sad. I wish him the best.

Autism is difficult. Its not a "Oh, here, just do this and you are going to be okay." There is so much involved in the healthy development of a child who is diagnosed.

[Demonskid]

My nephew is developing fine. Like i said Luckily he knows better than to carry out his threats, unlike his mother who tried to cut my tongue out. I just worry about how the new kid is gonna turn out

It pisses me off when people make light of autism. And then there are those who make fun of it too. The lady up stairs has gone through many nurses because they don't take Autism seriously =/

anyway i'm off to bed. ovo nainai

[McSwiggins]

Oh, I misread. I apologize. Well, I am happy he knows not to carry out his threats. Thats a relief. Your sister...-sigh- I'm not sure what to say but I wish this baby well.

It pisses me off to. I see my son struggling to do things other kids his age can do and I've worked so hard with him with things that others take for granted like walking and being able to use the toilet correctly. And then hear jokes about this very real struggle and its just so insensitive and completely not funny. I also hate when people use retarded as a joke or insult. People with mental retardation are not jokes and they work twice as hard to do normal things that others can do, plus they are often really kind hearted people.
I wish the best for the lady upstairs from you. :)

Alright, g'night. Sleep well.

[Natsunaine]

Dks who do i send donations to

[Demonskid]

to cat o3o

-climbs all over natsu-

[McSwiggins]

Hello

[Demonskid]

morning ovo

[Natsunaine]

*nods* only items? Or is au okay to?

[Demonskid]

Anything is find. o3o it gets handed out slowly. AU gets handed out as page prizes

[hyjin]

stuff gets handed out very slowly

[Demonskid]

._. kinda hard to hand out stuff when everyone already has what cat has Dx