[MonBon]

This might be a bit too dark, but I watched a court recording today of a case where the abuser violated the no contact order DURING the court session. He was in the same room as the victim. The female prosecutor (mentioning her gender bc I think it is important) picked up on the nonverbal cues via zoom. Absolutely amazing.

[KittyBeary]

Of COURSE an abuser would violate court rules. >:( Cause they think they can get their way. Mad props to the prosecutor, though. <3

[MonBon]

I'm so glad my case didn't have to go to court. I was terrified about how that would go down

[KittyBeary]

Ah, feel free to post/comment in my ACNH thread, everyone! ^^ I don't bite! XD And I want to keep sharing updates on my island with you guys. :) But don't want it to be just my posts. xD

[Stabbsworth]

i need to piss but i'm not sure if my dad's in the bath.

also my internet sometimes shits itself. not good, esp today.

[KittyBeary]

My internet shat itself yesterday and today, also. ;-; Sigh.

[Merskelly Metalien]

>x(
I need to just say that dogs are precious and I love them so much!
Also, the song Afraid to Shoot Strangers by Iron Maiden is starting to grow on me, which is nice because I enjoy the less intense metal songs too...

[daikokunyo]

oh no, i'm a procrastinating perfectionist.
can't imagine a worse mix.

[KittyBeary]

Originally Posted by daikokunyo

oh no, i'm a procrastinating perfectionist.
can't imagine a worse mix.

Big same and it sucks x(

[Kaderin Triste]

I hate when my boss lies. Got a text last night asking me to come in early today to do dishes from a rental last night. Her words on the quantity of dishes: "not too many".

That was a bald-faced lie. Not too many, my ass. I did 2 AND A HALF trays of just dinner plates. There was so much silverware that I just gave it a quick rinse to get the bigger food particles off them (because our "dishwasher" is actually meant for sanitizing, not washing) and dumped them all in the flat tray.
Like...the quantity of dishes isn't going to impact whether I agree to come in or not, so just be honest and say "we had a pretty big rental, could you come in early?" I'd probably still have said yes. Not that I get any respect here. The artists and renters give me more heartfelt thank yous than my boss does... >.>
At least my cleaning now is (hopefully) limited to the occasional helping out and she doesn't try to make this a permanent thing. Because I already quit janitorial and doing dishes sure as hell isn't in the front desk/gift shop employee manual.

[MonBon]

Ah that sucks Kad, sorry to hear. Your boss should respect you and your time

[Kaderin Triste]

All bosses should. But in my experience, the ones that do don't come along very often.

[Coda]

Good managers do. It's part of what makes them good managers. Sadly, good managers aren't exactly commonplace. Most employers don't put enough value on putting good candidates in those roles; "good enough" is... well, good enough, for them.

[daikokunyo]

Originally Posted by KittyBeary

Big same and it sucks x(

I know, right!!

What's that cute little floating panda face in your avi called? It's adorable! Your whole avi looks so comfy and casually awesome.

[Kaderin Triste]

I think I was accidentally very rude to a customer. But tbh, I was trying to clock out for lunch (as in, I had the time clock open and was about to punch out) and she was asking me questions about a fabric, which I did my best to answer, but then I punched out and walked away because she didn't say anything after my price checking. She looked like she was thinking still.
But as I was buying a water, I saw her walk out without fabric so I suspect she wanted me to cut her fabric. But she didn't say how much she wanted or anything and she knew (because I said it) that I was going to lunch so...idk. Might have accidentally been rude.

[MonBon]

I'm gonna be moving at the end of the year but I haven't decided where. I can't seem to find a place where both my partner and I would be happy