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There are all kinds of love out there, so I'd say, with 100% certainty, that there's definitely such a thing as unconditional love out there.

Why else would some people jump in front of bullets or sacrifice their lives for someone else, like a lover or family member or something, if unconditional love didn't exist? Like, who jumps in front of a bullet thinking, "Aw, man, I'm gonna be recognized as such a hero," "Oh, shit, I'm gonna do this, but you owe me after this," or "Man, I'm doing this totally because of ulterior and conditional motives"? Don't they jump in front of that bullet because they unconditionally love that person?
Old Posted 11-17-2012, 05:04 PM Reply With Quote  
Default   #18   MacSen191 MacSen191 is offline
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My sig other and I are like this. We've been together going on 8 years and we'd pretty much do anything for each other. Were each others best friend and we rarely fight and when we do it;s taken care of right away and we compromise about it. He truly is my other half... he belives in me when I don't in myself and let's me know it, and I only hope I do the same he does for me.

Also you feel this when you have children. I will always love my son. He's the light in my life as well and I may not like the things he does... when he grows older I may not like his life choices(his girlfriend or boyfriends...), his career choice... etc. But I will always love him and support him no matter what. Only time I think I can see myself wavering in that is if he turned out to be a murderer, which ain't gonna happen on my watch. :)
Old Posted 11-27-2012, 09:48 AM Reply With Quote  
Yokuutsu Yokuutsu is offline
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It's all conditional in my mind. No human can keep being hurt my the same person indefinitely and still love them. Sometimes it doesn't take much to kill the "love"...other times....it takes a lot more. There are always conditions, I've learned. I may not know the conditions, but they are there somewhere.

I've come to accept that mostly...and that's why I don't date, don't think about dating, or having a relationship or the like.

The best thing about this? I can be wrong. I'm human as well with my own flaws.
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Default   #20   Kristien Kristien is offline
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I personally feel there is indeed unconditional love. Not to say that there are not things that would break a relationship, but I know in my heart that no matter what my beloved does, I will still always love him, even if someday I feel that it is in my best interest for my mental or physical well-being to break up with him. There is nothing he could do that I would not at least try and forgive him and make it work. I want to stay with him forever.
Old Posted 11-27-2012, 10:21 PM Reply With Quote  
Belial Belial is offline
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It's all conditional in my mind. No human can keep being hurt my the same person indefinitely and still love them. Sometimes it doesn't take much to kill the "love"...other times....it takes a lot more. There are always conditions, I've learned. I may not know the conditions, but they are there somewhere.

I've come to accept that mostly...and that's why I don't date, don't think about dating, or having a relationship or the like.

The best thing about this? I can be wrong. I'm human as well with my own flaws.
I agree with this though part of me still dreams of unconditional romantic love being real, I know this only happens in movies.

However, parent wise, I always have conditional love for my son. No matter how many times he disobeys or pushes my buttons I know he is a good kid and I can't imagine not loving him.

I just don't have time for a relationship, I'm a parent first and this is my priority. Besides, I am pretty picky about how I would date and around my age.
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