[Sadrain]

-cuddles- I don't know what happened, but if you think you said something wrong to someone and if they didn't outrightly tell you that, you might be wrong about what they think about you.

[Muff Muff]

Well I told him I had a date, then he told me he did. XD SO yeah. My attempt of jealousy backfired. :I

[Sadrain]

Oh. >: Well. maybe he said it just because, too? Guys do that, too. And if it is true, isn't it better than keeping to hope and hope and then hearing how happy he is with his date?

[Duchess]

Gah! Why you wanna make him jealous? Does it feel good?

it would have been worse if it "worked" trust me.... -_________-

and the new betas are loud XDDDD. They overpower me..like they'll take my lunch money or something ROFLMAO

[Muff Muff]

True. HO HUM! I don't even wanna go on this date. XD The guy kinda weirds me out.

[Sadrain]

-snuggles Duchess- We have some safe havens, hopefully. I just wish to avoid some certain type of people who seem to have flooded in here after it opened. Dx

[Duchess]

You haaaave to go now muff XDDDD and stop talking to your ex..like completely..for 9 months at least. With NO contact at all. remove on msn , fb anywhere else you'd see how he's doing.. It's like quitting cigarettes. Breaking up is like quitting cold turkey...get rid of it completely to avoid cravings and find a distraction nao >B

I knoowwww..... *huggles my shop* meep... *stays here forevers* lol

[Sadrain]

I think I kinda agree with Duchess. I haven't broken up, or been in love, but I have had to break up friendship, and, oh gosh, it was hard to not look what she was doing and who she was talking with in the forum we were together and thinking "but maybe this time she will have thought things over, andand we can be friends again...". So, in the end, I left that site and came back somewhat only when I had gotten over it. I can't say I am still not slightly bitter and sad when we meet up, but it's not like "I AM SORRY I WAS WRONG LETS BE FRIENDS AGAIN" feeling I had for a while, even if I knew I wasn't wrong, but...

-stays with you, lol-

[Muff Muff]

xD But...I don't even like this guy. He just asked me and I said fine. Minus well get out there. And I only talked to Ben once in the past...week? And that's cause someone called my cell for work, so I had to tell him. It was a job or whatever. >< But I do want to talk to him like every day...

[Sadrain]

Well, then it's kinda not nice to the guy then, you know... x.x; But, okay, this is not really my business so I am not poking my nose in there. XD

[Duchess]

Rainy: That's exactly how it was with my ex. Now I can talk to him without wanting him back or hating him to the core. It's like its neutral now. Of course if i think about the past, I get moopy or irritated...but other than that.. the lack of communication did better for me.

Muff: btw read this - 6 Scientific Reasons Breakups Suck Worse Than You Think

You are addicted to cigs..AND cigs >O Get rid of at least one.. you're giving yourself cancer x2

[Muff Muff]

xD Well no one break up on my behalf, kay? lol *still reading*

Sadrain; Well I don't know him. But I'm mainly dreading it because of everything else, and I'm kinda mean and judgmental. xD I mean the first thing I said to him after he asked my number was what was wrong with him. LMAO! Cause honestly, guys don't ask me on dates unless they're mental or something. ><

[Sadrain]

-snuggles- Give him a chance, if you can. XD; And if not, well... I don't know, don't try to turn it into relationships or something if you know you can't stand him in some way.

Yeah, I suppose friendship/relationship is kinda similar in that way, Duchess. ;>.>

[Muff Muff]

I was really keen on the love addiction thing. I suppose that's why I hop from boy to boy after each break up. >< I'm addicted to the max. D: It's horrible! But I can fully understand that. And now that whole drug thing for guys is freaking me out cause Ben apparently is smoking a lot of pot now, I'm guessing. And he drinks a lot, and he already drank a lot when I lived there. Though I can't say much, I drank a lot too.. Oh god. D: *wheezes*

Sadrain; I'll try. That's why I haven't canceled yet. lol And I'ma tell him, I'm not looking for anything serious. I need to make sure I stick to my word this time, or I'll get in trouble again. >< But messing around will keep my mind off Ben. XD I hope. Either that or make me feel guilty. >>''

[Duchess]

Friendship IS a relationship. xD you have to maintain it just as much as the others and it can hurt just as much too

lol. Muff's addicted to love *sings* i swweearr addiction is never good tho... >>

[Muff Muff]

True. Though I do better with friends than most. >< At least online. LMAO

D: Dun make fun of me. This is serious! Addiction is very serious! lol Yeah it isn't. But the bliss factor seems to counter that factor, and we forget that part. lol Though most don't see it as an addiction. Hell, I knew there was something wrong with me, but didn't think to call it an addiction. Makes mores sense. ><