[Red Lion]

Daw, but I mean, you do look for jobs and and you laundry and such, not to mention when we can, we hang out, you don't just do NOTHING, if you have the opportunity to do something you do it. Besides, where are you supposed to go without transportation and money? It's not like you can invent things to keep you busy....

[uncledaddy]

I don't know, that that's why it's so damn aggravating. She KNOWS I have no car and no money, she KNOWS I have nobody here to do things with and that I would gladly see you every day if it were possible, but it's not. She knows there is nothing set up for me to do around the house unless she TELLS ME what actually needs to be done and how, so I don't know what the hell she expects me to do all day that isn't "sit on the computer all day". It's all I fucking have; I can't even talk on the phone all day like she does because I don't have free minutes until after nine unless it's a weekend, and you don't have a cell phone. I don't have a church to go exercise at every other day, or to have meetings at about mission trips and whatever else. I don't have a circle of old ladies and people to visit all the time, engagement parties to go to, whatever. And I sure as hell couldn't get to them without a car any damn way. She's just being fucking negative for no reason and that is the last thing I need in my goddamn life right now.

[Red Lion]

Roo, I wouldn't take it to heart, she's probably just stressed and you got more to worry about. Besides, you don't even have all your stuff so you can't really do any of your hobbies yet, I mean goddamn you just got here and you've been trying to get a job almost round the clock, everyone needs to just kinda chill and take things in stride. Once you get a job you'll have more to do and your financial stuff will be taken care of, until then we just need to try and keep our pants on and hope for the best.

[uncledaddy]

My hobbies include drawing and writing, both of which involve the use of a computer. So apparently those don't count. And if I have time to sit around drawing, I obviously need to be working on sending in more applications instead.

[Red Lion]

....oi,

but sending applications requires you to sit at the computer.

[uncledaddy]

Yes. As does nearly everything that I could possibly have to do here. I cannot just go work outside. I cannot go waltzing off to the church every few minutes. I can guarantee you without the church crap she'd be spending a lot more time in front of the TV.

[Red Lion]

Yeah, I mean, I suppose if she lets you, you could try and mow the lawn in the spring or water something but barring that what does she want? I go to college and hang out with friends sometimes, outside of those two things I'm no more active than you are and I do have a car and occasionally money. What does she expect?

[uncledaddy]

I don't fucking know. I really don't. This is why I have a thing about people seeing me, or about not doing anything. I can't have it. I have to at least look like I'm doing something at all times, even when there's absolutely nothing to be done, because that's what I grew up with.

[Red Lion]

Lovely, srsly, people need to chill out, son. Maybe if she sees you do some exercises it will appease her.

[uncledaddy]

I will not exercise in front of her. I have already told her I do exercises by myself, and that I take walks or sometimes just go outside. Doesn't make a difference.

[Red Lion]

Then there's no pleasing her and she's just complaining to complain.

[uncledaddy]

Yeah, pretty much. That's my family for you, all the time.

[Red Lion]

Uuuugh,

gross, just gross.

My mom complains that I'm a lazy do nothing who has no life too.

As if she has any room to talk.

[uncledaddy]

Yeah, of course.. >___< Guh. Bitches gonna get punched one day.

[Red Lion]

Indeed,

Still can't believe she says that, she told me this because I mentioned being low on gas and being tired from driving myself and my brother to school all day when she wanted me to run up to the convenience store and buy her some smokes. She was all "How can you be tired? You're so lazy you never do anything so where do you get off being tired? Go and get my smokes or you'd better not get on that computer since you're so tired!"

[uncledaddy]

Wow. Just wow... :/ She is asking for it, I tell you.