[Echo-chan713]

I don't want kids period. I had that idea since I was 11

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) That's a great idea. I wished I had that one. >.<



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[femme gauche]

I'm 21 and I've never even kissed a guy XD. It's not that I'm against it, at this point I can't imagine having kids, but I just haven't had a boyfriend or anything xP.

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) There is nothing wrong with that Femme.
You are waiting til you find someone right.
I admire people like that. I wish I waited
for alot of things til I met my husband but
then I think that if I waited then I might
not of met him and I wouldn't have the
greatest guy in the world hehe. I'm an
annoying optimist >.>; So much so that it
actually bothers me at times lol.



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[femme gauche]

I'm the same way. i think about things that I might regret, but then I think, I wouldn't have the best friend that I have, and I wouldn't have the happiness that I have with the things that I enjoy...

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) Same with me. My husband was a virgin when
I met him. He has values a girl would
have. He highly values sex and thinks
it stands for something very special, same
with me. He also thinks it should only be
enjoyed between people who are in love
with each other. He was 18 and had these
values that he taught himself. No one in
his family thought like that, only him. And
that is one thing that I really love about
him. He's the perfect guy for any woman hehe,
or man if he was that way lol.



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[Echo-chan713]

For me I couldn't really handle the thought of raising another being, I would end up being like my mom, never there (I would be a horrible mom). I can't find the good ones here in Colorado, the good ones want something that I can't have; beauty. :(

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) I'm sure your beautiful Echo. And you will find that
right one, one day.

I hoped to be a good mom but I ended up
being a bad one. I tried my hardest but
it was just too hard to raise someone
that completely depended on you 100%.
But I'm glad my son turned out pretty
decent. I at least did one right, and
that's what I look at. One is better
than none.

Not everyone is made for being a parent
and I think it's good that people don't
have children when they think they would
be a bad parent. There are so many people
out there that have kids even though they
can't handle them and are bad parents but
they just keep on doing that and it's bad.
I wished there were more people out there
like you who absoultely don't want kids and
are making sure they don't. But if you do
have a child. I'm sure you will do your best
and will do fine.



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[femme gauche]

Well they can't be that good if they're only interested in beauty queens... That's the way I think about it.

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) Great way to think of that.



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[femme gauche]

Yeah, so... I mean, I'm not particularly attractive - moderately so I suppose - but I wish I knew a way to be sure, if a guy likes me... I mean there are a number of things. Haha. But I've never had a guy with a serious interest, I mean there have been guys who liked me but none that seemed particularly appealing, to me. Personality wise I mean.

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) Don't worry Femme, you will find one someday.
I found my perfect guy and I know you will.
There is someone perfect for everyone. It
just takes sometime finding them at times.
Wished it didn't though.



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[femme gauche]

Yeah, that search can lead to a lot of distress for many people, but at the same time, what fun would it be if you were given all the answers at the beginning?

[Echo-chan713]

my searches lead to other people's misery, For me I think there aren't enough good guys (or girls) in the world

[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) I luckily wasn't looking for
someone when I found my perfect mate. I
feel bad for people who have to though.

Sadly there aren't Echo. And there should be
more good people out there.



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