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Rosekitten · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:27 AM

i need some advice D:

is it wrong of me to get jealous of a game?
Explaining this a bit more...
Kano spends most of his free time playing the mmo that i can't play due to my pc being busted and this one unable to handle it. But on top of that it seems like most of the time he's grouped with the same female (yes its a female player and not just character). I'm probably over reacting... but I dunno i just feel a little betrayed.. the other females int he guild i was never worried about cause they were married or had someone, this one is single and had past bad relationships and I know Kano is a great guy.. like i said im probably just over reacting on this Dx

i also just needed somewhere to vent a bit

Kamikaze Chinchilla · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:40 AM

I think a reaction like this is normal, under those conditions. If he's playing the mmo with someone who's probably going to look for some form of sympathy or attention (considering he's the 'good person' and will try to comfort her...makes him feel like he's more needed/wanted), as well as the fact that she shares the same interest in the mmo as him..then most likely he'll start to gain a stronger bond with her.

I would be careful if I were you. Your relationship with him can become very frail very quickly. Watch out for signs that his interest in you is decreasing and prepare yourself just in case.

Airina · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:43 AM

Uhhhhh what's going on right now???

Rosekitten · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:44 AM

i always prepare myself for the worst whenever i enter a relationship so thats all set. And I know thats how it can work.. i mean i met him through WoW though I'd love to think I can trust him seeing as we're engaged and all that.. i mean he's given me no reason not to but I still worry ya know =/ and saying this stuff out right to him makes me worry that it'll push him away from me.

Airina · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:45 AM

Ahhhhh *hugs* i'm so sorry that you're dealing with that rose.

Rosekitten · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:54 AM

it's not a big deal i hope things will work out for the better in the long run.

Airina · Posted 05-26-2011, 12:55 AM

I hope so for your sake as well!!

Ultima · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:25 AM

Welcome Desmond, Trickster Knight! =D
-throws confetti-

Airina · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:27 AM

Oooooh trickster knight!!!! *makes a cake*

Desmond · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:29 AM

Ooooh I like cake! ^^

-pounces on Ulit through the confetti-

Ultima · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:36 AM

-ish pounced on- X3

Desmond · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:37 AM

-sits ontop of him and starts tickling him- Hehehehe.

Ultima · Posted 05-26-2011, 02:40 AM

-is unaffected by the tickling- o3o

Desmond · Posted 05-26-2011, 03:00 AM

I never win. >> Why can't I win just once?

But no, you have to win because I'm the ticklish one and you aren't. >>

Airina · Posted 05-26-2011, 03:58 AM

*giggles and tickles desmond*

Lauv Keiko · Posted 05-26-2011, 09:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ultima

Welcome Desmond, Trickster Knight! =D
-throws confetti-

Congratulations, desmond!! whoohoo!! A trickster knight~ :3

		#23186	Kamikaze Chinchilla It's ALIVE
I think a reaction like this is normal, under those conditions. If he's playing the mmo with someone who's probably going to look for some form of sympathy or attention (considering he's the 'good person' and will try to comfort her...makes him feel like he's more needed/wanted), as well as the fact that she shares the same interest in the mmo as him..then most likely he'll start to gain a stronger bond with her. I would be careful if I were you. Your relationship with him can become very frail very quickly. Watch out for signs that his interest in you is decreasing and prepare yourself just in case. ~an item brewery - updated 12/02~
	Posted 05-26-2011, 12:40 AM

Airina Leagues Under the Sea			#23187
	Uhhhhh what's going on right now??? Mizeria's sister Renata is my boyfriend! <3 He's mine no touchy! Book Haven Closet Lace and Chains: Hearts Intertwined Airina's House of Antiques
		Posted 05-26-2011, 12:43 AM

Airina Leagues Under the Sea			#23189
	Ahhhhh hugs i'm so sorry that you're dealing with that rose. Mizeria's sister Renata is my boyfriend! <3 He's mine no touchy! Book Haven Closet Lace and Chains: Hearts Intertwined Airina's House of Antiques
		Posted 05-26-2011, 12:45 AM

Airina Leagues Under the Sea			#23191
	I hope so for your sake as well!! Mizeria's sister Renata is my boyfriend! <3 He's mine no touchy! Book Haven Closet Lace and Chains: Hearts Intertwined Airina's House of Antiques
		Posted 05-26-2011, 12:55 AM

		#23192	Ultima Lurker of Lurkiness
Welcome Desmond, Trickster Knight! =D -throws confetti- As fabulous and pretty as they are, Ulti's avatars are always male~ Please use "he"/"him" or "they"/"them" pronouns when referring to me please <3 User since 9-22-10 I love it when people use my Sinopa emotes~ <3 ~
	Posted 05-26-2011, 02:25 AM

Rosekitten Thorns and Claws			#23185
	i need some advice D: is it wrong of me to get jealous of a game? Explaining this a bit more... Kano spends most of his free time playing the mmo that i can't play due to my pc being busted and this one unable to handle it. But on top of that it seems like most of the time he's grouped with the same female (yes its a female player and not just character). I'm probably over reacting... but I dunno i just feel a little betrayed.. the other females int he guild i was never worried about cause they were married or had someone, this one is single and had past bad relationships and I know Kano is a great guy.. like i said im probably just over reacting on this Dx i also just needed somewhere to vent a bit
		Posted 05-26-2011, 12:27 AM

		#23188	Rosekitten Thorns and Claws
i always prepare myself for the worst whenever i enter a relationship so thats all set. And I know thats how it can work.. i mean i met him through WoW though I'd love to think I can trust him seeing as we're engaged and all that.. i mean he's given me no reason not to but I still worry ya know =/ and saying this stuff out right to him makes me worry that it'll push him away from me.
	Posted 05-26-2011, 12:44 AM

		#23190	Rosekitten Thorns and Claws
it's not a big deal i hope things will work out for the better in the long run.
	Posted 05-26-2011, 12:54 AM

Airina Leagues Under the Sea			#23193
	Oooooh trickster knight!!!! makes a cake Mizeria's sister Renata is my boyfriend! <3 He's mine no touchy! Book Haven Closet Lace and Chains: Hearts Intertwined Airina's House of Antiques
		Posted 05-26-2011, 02:27 AM

		#23194	Desmond twitch
Ooooh I like cake! ^^ -pounces on Ulit through the confetti- If you would like to see my awesome scroll: http://dragcave.net/user/Blakey914 I may also have a tumblr... http://spunky710.tumblr.com If you follow me, drop me a message in my ask! ^_^
	Posted 05-26-2011, 02:29 AM

Ultima Lurker of Lurkiness			#23195
	-ish pounced on- X3 As fabulous and pretty as they are, Ulti's avatars are always male~ Please use "he"/"him" or "they"/"them" pronouns when referring to me please <3 User since 9-22-10 I love it when people use my Sinopa emotes~ <3 ~
		Posted 05-26-2011, 02:36 AM

		#23196	Desmond twitch
-sits ontop of him and starts tickling him- Hehehehe. If you would like to see my awesome scroll: http://dragcave.net/user/Blakey914 I may also have a tumblr... http://spunky710.tumblr.com If you follow me, drop me a message in my ask! ^_^
	Posted 05-26-2011, 02:37 AM

Ultima Lurker of Lurkiness			#23197
	-is unaffected by the tickling- o3o As fabulous and pretty as they are, Ulti's avatars are always male~ Please use "he"/"him" or "they"/"them" pronouns when referring to me please <3 User since 9-22-10 I love it when people use my Sinopa emotes~ <3 ~
		Posted 05-26-2011, 02:40 AM

		#23198	Desmond twitch
I never win. >> Why can't I win just once? But no, you have to win because I'm the ticklish one and you aren't. >> If you would like to see my awesome scroll: http://dragcave.net/user/Blakey914 I may also have a tumblr... http://spunky710.tumblr.com If you follow me, drop me a message in my ask! ^_^
	Posted 05-26-2011, 03:00 AM

Airina Leagues Under the Sea			#23199
	giggles and tickles desmond Mizeria's sister Renata is my boyfriend! <3 He's mine no touchy! Book Haven Closet Lace and Chains: Hearts Intertwined Airina's House of Antiques
		Posted 05-26-2011, 03:58 AM

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