[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ They are only concerned it seems like, is their company. And money.
I just wished it wasn't 4 weeks again. My
hubby, Joe, said it should be 2 weeks after
his mentoring if over with. I just hope that
it is. His son is hard to deal with alone
since I don't like confrontation. I've dealt
with it my entire life and I just had it. I
want a calm life for now on. But with our son
I have to fight with him every single day, a
few times a day now since he knows I am stupid
enough to believe him. But I guess now I have
to think that everything he says is a lie.
This way I don't have to deal with too much
like I had to before. Plus Joe instated new
rules before he left, which should make things,
hopefully a little easier on me. I just hope
that my son listens to them no matter if it's
just me or not.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

I hope things get better for you

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ Thank you, I hope so too. Right now the biggest problem is my son.
Especially since my son walks home from school
if something happens that he doesn't like.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

just make him walk right back

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I would but this school marks kids trunt right away and they
are not allowed back into school for the
rest of the day or the next day cause they
are suspended. Which is bull because ya...
making a kid NOT go to school is totally gonna
teach them a lesson LOL. Stupid schools.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

that stupid like rewarding him for leaving how is he supposed to learn not to do it if you can't make him go back

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
»·,´·˙(´·˙¸ ¸˙·,)˙·,´•·˙·,¯´·˙·• •·˙·,¯´·˙·•╭☆╯•·.·´¯`·.·• •·.·´¯`·.·•´`·.(`·.¸ ¸.·´).·´`·»



☪ஐﻬ☽ I know what you mean. The one problem I'm having is keeping him
in school. My son wants to leave school
which is way, according to Joe, is why he
is lying what is happening at school with
teachers and students keep picking on him
and teasing him all the time. I had a terrilbe
school experience in three schools from 2nd
grade til I dropped out in 11th. I had bad
teachers every single year and they were all
bad but 2 in 6th. 2, that's it. Otherwise they
actually did harass me in class in front of the
other students and I was the kid that stayed to
myself and kept quiet all the time doing my
work or reading. And if I did talk, it was me
being so quiet my friend couldn't really hear
me at all over everyone else who was loud as hell.
But they were all whores and jack asses, (cheerleaders
and jocks). No offense. So Joe is saying because he
knows that, he is using that for himself to try to
get me to keep him home from school and home school
him, which I can't because he isn't willing to do
any work at all, its a fight to do that too. You have
to yell at him and argue non stop just for him to throw
a fit and cry for a hour or so. >.>;

I tried my best with all my kids and they all take
advantage of me. I wish I could control my emotions
like Joe can. >.>;

I've been meaning to say. I love your avi. It's
beautiful.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

thank you.

I am sorry I don't know anything about raising kids so I don't know what to say. Call the super nanny or just watch a few episodes of her show they are all the same thing lol

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I used to watch that show. Those kids are just beyond bad. I'm glad my
son isn't that bad at all. I'm hoping that
getting him rediagnosed will help with knowing
what is wrong with him. To me there has to be
something causing this behaviour. Otherwise I
am at a loss at what is going on with that kid.

On a side note Joe gave me his ipad and now I
have a MMO on it that is alot like World of
Warcraft. Now all I have to do is start to
actually play games for once instead of
thinking about them lol.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

Maybe when your son does something wrong you should do like on the super nanny even though he's not as bad as those kids. Take him aside tell him what he has done wrong and make him sit in time out for a certain amount of time. Keep putting him there until he sits there his whole time. Then have him repeat what he has done wrong.

If it has to do with coming home from school tell him that you know he is having a hard time at school and you understand how he feels but if he doesn't go to school you will get in trouble from the government and he will get taken from you and go to a place they will force him to go to school.
And make sure he isn't doing anything at all while in time out.

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I try talking to him but I just get lies from him. Like he will
say that someone did this to him and he told
a teacher but they didn't care and ignored it.
That is why he acted out in school. Exact same
stuff I heard in the last place we lived in 2
different schools. He's 12 so time outs won't
really work on him. We take his computer away
from him for periods of time and now he has to
earn his computer. Like if I don't get a call
saying he did this and this in school he can
have it for the day but at night it goes into
my room and stays there til the next day so he
can't look at porn again and stay up all damn
night like he's done before.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

Just make him sit one one spot for like half an hour with out anything at all to do.

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I'd be yelling at him the whole time and I can't yell here
or else we might get kicked out. Taking his
computer away is working so far in the house.
He's been better today with the new rules we
just set in effect yesterday. We tried time
outs in the past but they never worked for
any of the kids.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

Don't yell at him just keep bringing him back and sitting him down if he gets up. And each time calmly say why he has to have a time out. And always give him a hug and tell him you love him after he completes it and apologizes.

[Saiyouri]

тнє ℓσνє σƒ мαgι¢ ιѕ вєуση∂ ƒσяgσттєη
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☪ஐﻬ☽ I can't touch him, he's icky. And I have severe OCD. I can only
touch Joe and my kitties. Plus I snap alot
of the time. I have never had good control
over my frustration. I think its from the
family I grew up in, they yelled and
screamed non stop in front of me. >.> And
now I have a hard time trying not to yell.
I just snap and yell before I realize that
I am doing it. Something I have to work on.



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uǝʇʇoƃɹoɟ puoʎǝq sı ɔıƃɐɯ ɟo ǝʌol ǝɥʇ

[Feythfull]

Well keep working on that. Sounds like your family is in a tough spot.