[MayChan]

Rofl! A date out I wouldn't mind, but it's not on my list of "NEED/WANT" I just want to spend time with him xD He doesn't like cooking so I want him to cook for me >D Bwahahhaa

[Fauxreal]

No way! I say - he better take you for a good time. You can sit at home any time - if you do go over there, where I wish you wouldn't just for a bit - I say he should go visit you. BUT! I say if you do... you had better get a fancy dinner!! *LOLZ!*

[MayChan]

Okay okay okay xD we'll do a Fancy dindin with the whole dressing up all fancy and fancy music and fancy food that has small portions. THAT FANCY SMALL PORTION FOOD xD

[Fauxreal]

Lol! Good! You better!

[Ishu]

I think you really need to take your personal safety into account. If you can, don't go alone. If you can't find someone to go with you then only meet him in public locations where, if you scream, someone can hear you.

Also, if I knew your mother a little bit better I could predict her reaction but I'm going to assume she's the super over protectively christian type. (in these cases, they usually are, in my experiences) If you want, don't tell her you are going. TELL SOMEONE YOU KNOW where you are going, but not your mother. This way, if you go missing, someone will know the general location but, still, you're mother can't deny you.

When you get back home, and let's hope you do, and without any complications, sit your mother down and try to have a calm, civil, mature conversation with her. Explain to her that you are a young adult and it is time she let you make your own decisions. No matter what happens, good or bad, explain to her that you can both learn something from the experience. If you do make a mistake (please, try to refrain from sexual activities. I have heard too many stories about girls in your situation regretting what they do when they finally meet the guy) then just tell her it is your responsibility and you should have known better. If you were right, don't rub it in her face but just let her know that even though it is something to be considered highly dangerous, you were willing to take the risk and you are ok.

Don't let this lead you to believe you are invincible or that nothing bad can ever happen to you because it CAN. Hopefully, this gets worked out and you are safe in the end.

[MayChan]

I don't think I can do that to my mother x.x I think not telling her will probably bring the worse >.< so I HAVE to tell her. The airport is public, but if it was to go wrong, he can easily play mr.nice until the car >.> but I know he isn't evil xD that's just an loophole to the public thingy. I mean I'll be in his turf xD

[Fauxreal]

Are you going to be staying in his house?

[Oliver8607]

Originally Posted by Fauxreal

I don't want to sound like your mom, but you never know a person till you live with them.

I've had several online boyfriends and meeting them in person has almost always been disappointing.

I would need more information in order to be able to help a little better.

Okay - so most of all I'd like to say, you are in high school aren't you? 17? 18? 19 even? How old is he? When you say you had some bumps in the past, what do you mean by that?

I honestly don't want you to get there either. He may be a nice guy - but what if his dad is a rapist?!

Now, I think that you are going to find a way to meet him either way, and if your mom wants it to be under her terms - she has to let him come over to you.

I'm not trying to sound like your mom - I just want you to be careful. Since you are are going to go either way... bring a can of mace with you.

This is so true