[katyasha]

Ok there this guy that I met online and he is into the same things I do and he is planning to go to the same con I'm going to next week and well I really want to meet him but I got this problem.
I have trouble talking to some guys, I'm worried they would say something that would make me unconformable or worse. I don't want to hurt his feelings in all but I'm one of those people who don't want to go from step A to step Z I wanted to take it one step of the time before we start a relationship and later on get married.
So is there any tips so we can still be friends for now and not get things out of control?

[Dawn]

Hm. I would suggest trying to find a few things out about him before the con that way when you do meet face to face, than you have stuff to talk about and won't have to worry too much about either of you being uncomfortable or saying something wrong.
And if having a relationship comes up, just say your looking for a friendship right now and see how things turn out over time.

[Haze]

Not all guys are the same, keep that in mind. I know things get kind of tough when you have a problem and are unsure of how to get rid of it, but I'm sure he doesn't have any intentions of hurting you or doing anything that would make you uncomfortable. But if you're really unsure, bring another friend along, talk to him more about it (it's better to be more honest, if he's aware of the fact, then I'm sure he'd try to avoid upsetting you.) or just don't meet up with him at all.
Why you're talking about marriage already, I'm unsure. I don't think you should look that far into the relationship just yet. Honestly, if you're having troubles then just let him know, "Hey, there's this problem I have, it's nothing personal, but please understand." If you say it politely and let him know it's not just him, I'm sure he'll get it.