Yes there is Hun, It takes two to make a relationship tell him how you feel about the situation give him suggestions on how you want the relationship to be, If he truly cares about you he will listen to them and take your suggestions to heart.
Hes making you change? Thats not right, if you can't be you then what is the point of a relationship? Making someone change and be a false persona of their old selves just makes the Relationship itself fake..
Thats fucked up Asami. I mean i know its something you don't wanna hear but, NO GUY OR GIRL NONE should ever do that to their significant other that's just bs. Im so sorry to hear that darling is there anything to do that i can help?