[Kotomi]

I'm getting the feeling it is going to be hard to work out
he is in his own world and if you two do want to work it out there has to be a compromise... somehow.

I do not think the volunteer job should of been thrown in there, even if you are just volunteering you can use that time and have on record and/or on a resume which could help in the future - don't quit that since you like it -

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