[Cronislee]

I dont see your point mirror, Sorry. What your suggesting is not akin to what Duchess has said. Also, you cant assume that because a parent has a good kid, and a bad kid, that they some how screwed up on the bad kid. If someone is spoiled or babied, then they can grow up to be spoiled. If you do not teach them respect, they will not learn respect, and once you pass a certain period of time, simply teaching respect will not result in learning respect, which is where corpral punishment comes in. You need to remember punishment is not equal to violence.