[littl3chocobo]

you dont curb his spending and instead threatened him with you spending money despite possible negative repercussions and if that is why then there is an issue

that and you both seem to be buying frivolous stuff you dont need (please dont tell me 4 shirts is not frivolous since i am sure they were retail and dont say there is a difference between you since the only dif is one of you is more assertive)

you both seem to spend on things you dont need to spend on, a friend coming over should /not/ be more than fifty bucks ever and there is no need to buy a shirt just because you didn't bring a coat, if it did not drop about thirty degrees he can survive, it is a matter of priorities dear, you are making this into a case of him getting more stuff than you when really it is a case of noone should be getting this stuff

maybe it is just my having spent half my life impoverished but from my point of view you both fucked up and really it does not matter who fucked up more. this is a problem that is on /both/ of you not just him and here is a bit of advice that my parents gave me when i was being a snot and that i give to others when it is one of those times;

life is /not/ fair, grow up.