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Anurah Loveheart · Posted 02-02-2011, 02:20 PM

So here is the story. I fell in love with sir_odin on here. And he fell in love with me <3.

I lived on the streets in oregon and moved to texas to live with my grandma she took me in bought me a car and is helping me through college.

Well sir_odin came to texas and visited for a week and grandma is not approving because he isn't rich or anything. but she even agrees he has a good personality but says that by even being his friend now im disrespecting her. If i keep on dating him she is sending me back to oregon.

Now i love my grandma very much and dont want to hurt her but i love sir_odin very much and can't just let him go... :/

The reason she is like this is because my mother did the same but ended up with my father who was an abusive drunk thought sir_odin is nowhere near that...

Duchess · Posted 02-02-2011, 07:59 PM

Personally... I think your grandmother is disrespecting YOU by not fully understanding your feelings. You should enlighten her of that.

And at this point, although it is good to respect your elders, you must also make your own "mistakes" whether it will truly be a mistake or not...only the future would decide. Hindering something like that is very uncaring.

I'm not saying to blatantly ignore her. HELL NO. Listen to her points and study whether they are valid or just fear talking. She obviously is concerned about you, so dont shake her off too quickly.

But let her know that respect goes both ways... and in the end... she needs to respect you enough to choose your own future... whether good or bad.

Anurah Loveheart · Posted 02-02-2011, 08:00 PM

Thank you <3

Duchess · Posted 02-02-2011, 08:07 PM

Your welcome ^^

I have to deal with something similar atm ^^; My mum's doesn't want me to marry my bf because he's not a Christian like her OTL Something about being unequally yoked with an unbeliever or some crockery.

I really dont care about religion. It has good values to implement...but...i'm sure my boyfriend has wonderful values with or without a belief in God.

-sigh- But luckily... she's allowing me to make my own "mistake" even thought she doesnt approve

Anurah Loveheart Peace <3		Love Tragedy?	#1
	So here is the story. I fell in love with sir_odin on here. And he fell in love with me <3. I lived on the streets in oregon and moved to texas to live with my grandma she took me in bought me a car and is helping me through college. Well sir_odin came to texas and visited for a week and grandma is not approving because he isn't rich or anything. but she even agrees he has a good personality but says that by even being his friend now im disrespecting her. If i keep on dating him she is sending me back to oregon. Now i love my grandma very much and dont want to hurt her but i love sir_odin very much and can't just let him go... :/ The reason she is like this is because my mother did the same but ended up with my father who was an abusive drunk thought sir_odin is nowhere near that...
		Posted 02-02-2011, 02:20 PM

		#2	Duchess Self-proclaimed Non-Conversationalist
Personally... I think your grandmother is disrespecting YOU by not fully understanding your feelings. You should enlighten her of that. And at this point, although it is good to respect your elders, you must also make your own "mistakes" whether it will truly be a mistake or not...only the future would decide. Hindering something like that is very uncaring. I'm not saying to blatantly ignore her. HELL NO. Listen to her points and study whether they are valid or just fear talking. She obviously is concerned about you, so dont shake her off too quickly. But let her know that respect goes both ways... and in the end... she needs to respect you enough to choose your own future... whether good or bad. Lucid loves Duchess and takes her signature virginity. <3 Ashy refuses to share Duchess with anyone D:< Duchess is idol TRASH Feel free to bully me about it
	Posted 02-02-2011, 07:59 PM

		#4	Duchess Self-proclaimed Non-Conversationalist
Your welcome ^^ I have to deal with something similar atm ^^; My mum's doesn't want me to marry my bf because he's not a Christian like her OTL Something about being unequally yoked with an unbeliever or some crockery. I really dont care about religion. It has good values to implement...but...i'm sure my boyfriend has wonderful values with or without a belief in God. -sigh- But luckily... she's allowing me to make my own "mistake" even thought she doesnt approve Lucid loves Duchess and takes her signature virginity. <3 Ashy refuses to share Duchess with anyone D:< Duchess is idol TRASH Feel free to bully me about it
	Posted 02-02-2011, 08:07 PM

Anurah Loveheart Peace <3			#3
	Thank you <3
		Posted 02-02-2011, 08:00 PM

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