[Zenella]

I'm not a male and I'm not gay but I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you have to deal with that and hopefully it will get better for you.

I'm not straight but I understand somewhat where a lot of straight girls are coming from. I can't be completely sure of this, but I think that they would rather have gay best friend instead of girl best friend because there might be less drama and backstabbing? I think that's just what comes to their minds, even if it's not true. So they automatically jump to the conclusion that since you're gay, you're like a girl because you like guys and will therefore do things girls do. I know it's annoying, but you just have to explain to them that you're a guy and just because you're gay, it doesn't mean you're feminine and want to be a girl. People are gonna stereotype all the time, with anything and everything. So you just gotta speak your mind and try to get them to understand and if they don't, just move on ><

I just thought I would add my thoughts in. I hope it makes sense xD