[Kory]

Originally Posted by trystan830

last week, my dad died. it was a strange April. at the beginning of the month, my mom told me that my cousin's daughter (who was 22) died suddenly, not related to the virus. my dad was in the memory care building at my parents' 55+ community since July, and he'd been going downhill. he hadn't been all there for a while. and the Friday before, he'd just stopped eating, and the nurses weren't sure he'd make it through the weekend, but he did, but wasn't doing well at all. my one brother and i each got the call last Wednesday morning. we had a small funeral on Friday and it did that ironic thing where it was a nice day, instead of the rain that was predicted. my mom's been with my brother and his family. i think she's hanging in there. she puts up a good front... but she's not alone, which is good.

Very sorry for your loss, trystan :(
It's really scary when a loved one dies suddenly, especially when they were very young.
My brother recently passed away suddenly as well. He was 30, and my mom felt terribly sad that she wasn't able to be with the rest of the family (this was a little before the quarantine shut everything down). But the family who was there were able to stream his memorial on facebook.

I sympathize with you very much. Even if you know ahead of time that a loved one might die, it still hurts just as bad as finding out another loved one passed away suddenly.

How have you been doing since?

Originally Posted by Merskelly Metalien

@ Ava: <xD Hehehe I used to be just like that! I had to use music to get me into the shower and get me out of it.
Actual shout: <XC I don't want to take a summer semester! You can't make me MOM! >:{ Can't make me do it! I need a break!!

Oh my X'hal! It's gotten to the point where I can't even use the toilet without being on my phone! D:
I have music going when I wash my hair because it takes so frick'n long! Haha