[Belial]

I see so many red flags here I am not quite sure where to begin. . .

Love is scary as hell, yes, but just being physical isn't an indicator of love.

Does he know your favorite color?
Does he know if you like coffee or tea?
Does he remember random facts about you?
Has he done anything for you other than making out or other physical things?

He doesn't seem like he wants to be "saved" and you seem to have made him into a project. If both parties were truly interested, would you really have to do as much "work" as you are already?

He says you both are moving too fast but that doesn't apply to the BJ's you are giving him? That part isn't too fast for him? Pardon my bluntness but your OP strikes me as he is, in fact, using you.

People can lie, just be careful that you don't believe everything people tell you.

[/end guy perspective]