[Mica]

I think the real problem isn't exactly social anxiety. Almost anyone would react that way in your situation- I really doubt you being conscious of others is the problem.

They are being disrespectful and frankly I think they are being more sensitive than you are, considering the situation. Not only that, they are playing childish games on a social site(assuming this is where your status is coming from). Personally, while this is probably an unlikely thing, I think you have to step up and you can't let these people control you. I personally would not tolerate such rude behavior, especially from my boyfriend's family OR him.

Maybe you should rethink your relation, as Hikori said, it is extremely unhealthy for you. Physically and mentally. Is he really worth all that? (Think about this really, really hard. I let go of the one thing that gave me hope for a better future, but he was killing me inside.)