[Gallagher]

my experience of being demi is that it's less immediate feeling and more early feeling, as in, a year being close is going fast.

but i also just generally don't feel physical attraction, even when thinking about sex. that's not limited to sex for me, it's also any real estimations of attractive vs cute vs beautiful in any way other than strictly the artistic composition of a photo. so, merskelly's experience definitely rings a couple bells.