[littl3chocobo]

beats mine. i was given those small black plastic combs a few times a month. i tore out teeth all of the time and it would get so bad i would start crying just thinking about brushing my hair. you want to know how to jumpstart toxic masculinity in a child? tell them that combing your hair doesn't hurt and tell them that they are liars and weak if they "pretend" it does

i am glad for it. it is a help if you can actually find credible resources should you have the wherewithal to know you should look


you know, this reminds me of a guy who went to the same school as me. his hair was as long as mine(below the shoulders) and he kept it out in a de-kinked afro. i was super impressed with it at the time because it was massive(to the point where the top was starting to bow under it's own weight) but thinking back his hair was a frazzled mess. it was really thin and unnatural looking and the flattening bow at the top almost certainly wouldn't have happened if he hadn't straightened it