[Tiva]

I am sorry that happened, and I understand why you wouldn't take the money from him. I have a large family and I only get gifts for my parents and my nieces and nephews. My siblings don't get anything from me, and when my younger sister got pissy because I hadn't gotten her daughter anything I told her flat out that unless I saw her more often I wouldn't. This child is almost a year old and I have yet to meet her. So i understand the problems of overbearing people.