[Alpha]

Basically - without going into too many specifics - living with my dad was hell, so basically ended up (due to his actions) kinda destroying who I was up until I severed my ties with him and (according to him) "burned the bridge" was reborn into a new person more like who I used to be and for much the better. Kinda the reborn from the ashes thing that I tie to, as well as being born from fire as well.....kinda a theme with me. Duality with fire, how it can both destroy and create.....

Anyways....Tiva got me a two sided pendant with a dragon on one side and a phoenix on the other. Since I identify with the Dragon primarily, but also with the Phoenix. And depending on which myth you read about dragons they can be born by fire as well.