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In a situation like this it's best to work out any 'rockiness' before becoming heavily involved - remember, divorce is a long, paper-filled process that is emotionally taxing for a lot of people.

In my personal opinion, the way he 'proposed' is a bit tacky, but if he's promising an official, romantic proposal then I suppose it's not official yet.

But if you're rocky, or not sure at all, don't say yes out of guilt. Marriage is an act of love and devotion; it's not supposed to be used as cement mix for a relationship of rubble. (I'm not saying your relationship is rubble...!)

You should talk with him about why he proposed and where the two of you are going to go from here - get everything else cemented before you solidify things with marriage.

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Old Posted 12-17-2011, 07:39 PM Reply With Quote