[Pinkie]

We have gone through the same thing almost. I am bisexual to and for the longest time I strayed more strongly towards females then males. I am also a christian as well as my family. The day that I realized that...I guess you can say that I didnt care was the day that my church excomunicated a young couple for being gay. In that moment I lost faith in my church. Now dont get me wrong I still praise the lord and always will but there are people that frown upon the whole thing.

The bible does say that a relationship between same sex couples is wrong and that you will "burn in hell" for it and this frightend me alot until I went and talked to a youth paster at my old church and he told me something that made me think even more. He said "Yes it is true that god frowns upon the relations of a same sex couple but if you have accepted our lord into your heart and repent your sins heaven awaits you"

This made me think so much about everything. I finaly came to the conclution that if god does truely love each of his childeren with undying love nothing we do should deminish that love he has for us. I explained everything to my father who so happens to be a homophobe to...go me. He still does not agree but the whole family still loves and cares for me. Mind you it took a good couple years but it happened.

I truely think that if love is found why should something like age, race, or gender stop you from loving that person...Love is a weird and mysterious thing and we all find it in different places. Look at me now, moved out with the bf whos an atheist lol...