[Yokuutsu]

In general, nowadays, people are more about instant gratification. The now thing. The impatient thing. That could be part of it.

Since you are so needy (not that that is a bad thing mind you), do you only have a few or many friends? If you only have a few, try to get more people to talk to? So your neediness can be spread out through more people. Since I don't think you can easily get rid of that emotion. Unless you want to go to a counselor...which it could be a personality disorder or something (you never know nowadays).

I wish I could actually help D: