[Perfectly Wicked]

I think you should be really honest with him. If you don't tell him how you feel and what you're going through he will not know. Guys don't think the way we do, he will never figure it out on his own. True fact.

Tell him that you're really struggling with him, yourself and the relationship. That you love him and want to be with him, but that you feel that you both need help learning how to communicate with each other.

Let him know that this is very important to you. Stress that fact with out letting the situation get hurtful. Avoid yelling, personal jabs or insults at all costs.

Relationships are work but the goal is a partnership that can last for your whole life.

My advice would be 'fish or cut bait'. You either put in the work for a goal that you think is worth the work or you let it go.

But I haven't ever been married and am not a councilor so.. I know that I don't have all the answers. xD;