[Trakadon]

I don't know my grandma very well and she came to visit us a few years ago and all she did was complain about how the our house was dirty and cluttered. She went through the house with my mom and pointed out all of the things she hated and she mad my mom change them and I watched as my grandma sat on her as with a brandy in her hand. Which you'd most likely never see her without one. Except when she is sleeping but even then you'd find a glass next to her bed. She even forced her way into my little 'house' which is more to say it was a custom built shed that was pretty much a studio apartment but she forced her way in and complained how unorganized my room was and wouldn't leave unless I situated everything to way she wanted. I did it of course because I wanted her gone but I soon moved everything back and locked the door after I left.

My grandma isn't used to being talked-back to and one day I had enough of it and told her off. I didn't care about the whole "treat your elders with respect" bit because in my family if you don't show respect then you get none in return.

Your grandma has no right to say those things about you and if I was in your place I'd tell her off. You didn't have to let her stay with you, and you sure as hell don't have to make sure she gets to the bathroom. Your grandma needs to learn that you don't bite the hand that feeds you.

Though that's what I would do... Though I'm not very close to my grandma and my grandpa died when I was wronger though I do remember him being very nice to me but not her...