[Wicked]

I don't think you're wrong for feeling this way. I really don't
It's scary and you don't want to lose him but you've got to talk to him.

Even if.. heck maybe especially if.. you feel like you're not "supposed" to feel this way.

Because the bottomline is that you DO feel it.

So talk.

He may still want to go and if he's determined you can't stop him.
And I think you wouldn't want to stop him even if you could.
No sense in inviting that kind of resentment.

I'm 100% sure you're not the only one who has ever felt this way.
Goodness gracious there's a television show about it! Army Wives.
I'd lay money on the fact that there's support out there for you.

Hey, you already mentioned you're close with his family. Talk to his mom.
She's feels something a lot like what you're feeling I promise you.