[Ginger]

Let's see here..

I didn't read that she wants him to STOP playing WoW altogether. It looks like he spends WAY more time playing his beloved games and enjoys himself more doing that than spending time with her. And yes, that IS a problem. When you love a game more than you love your partner in a relationship, that DOES in fact pose a threat to the relationship.

Has anyone even asked you how much you play your game in comparison to how much he plays? If I knew how much you play and how much he plays, I might be able to provide advice. Maybe if you could both schedule times to be together and not play games, things might turn out a little different. It sounds like you need to do fun things together, like go to the movies, go to a fair or community events, go swimming, and other things to remind him why he got together with you. Maybe he won't be as distracted by his game whenever you hang out if you're out of the house and actually communicating and spending time together. Tell him you miss how things were in the relationship. Maybe he will understand.

As for his friends, I'm in a similar situation except it's going on with his family too, so I can't be of much help when it comes to that. Everyone my boyfriend knows don't seem to care for me much and there's an awkward silence whenever I come into the room. I'm being kicked out of his parents house in a week if I don't get a job before then. It's as if they think I haven't been trying all summer to get my life going. I know I seem like a lazy ass to them, but really I hide out in my room all day and skip meals because I feel like I'm intruding and getting in the way. Who wouldn't feel that way when everyone around you seems to hate you? Anyway enough about me. I wish you luck and I hope you figure something out soon or it's just going to get worse.