[DarkForbidden-Love]

I think you should set down a timetable or something to the likes. You should spend time with other friends you have and maybe tell you boyfriend to meet you twice a week. You don't have to break up with him just show him that if he is going to devote his life to MMOs then your aren't going to suffer through it your going to stand up and live.
The 'friend' your boyfriend has seems like he doesn't want your boyfriend to be happy without him there. He is making it purposly difficult for you to make your boyfriend happy while he is moving away. This could be a problem in the long rin if this 'friend' of you boyfriend actually goes far enough to disturb the status of your relashion ship.
About giving up your volunteer job for his game don't. I know this has already been said but that trade is not fair. Your asking for more couple time that fits both of your scheduals not just his make him aware of this.