[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) Those people know what the meaning of a relationship is
though. Most married couples don't it seems.
They just take advantage of it. I'm like the
only person in my family who is truly in love
with the person I married. My one aunt and uncle
are bastards and she only cares for herself
and not him and treats him like crap but for
some reason they are still married after over
30 years. I have another uncle who married his
third wife and they might be in love, don't
know really. Then I have this other aunt and
uncle who are married but they don't even live
together. They lived together for over 7 years
and became common law man and wife, then they
got married by going to a judge and after a
few years, she moved up north to build their
house and he was gonna finish off the year at
his job then move out, but something happened
and now they don't really see each other at
all anymore but won't get divorced. I think
he cheated on her, but they really should
get divorced if they can't even stay in the
same zip code as the other. He barely even
goes out there to see her. Not even every
weekend or every other, too far of a drive
for him he says. My grandparents stayed
married til they died, I think they loved
each other even though he treated her like
crap all the time, they were born in the
20s and back then guys were raised with
treating women like their property and my
grandma, the sweet person she was, dealt
with it no matter how much it hurt her.
But when she died, he found out he had
testicular cancer and didn't do a damn
thing about it, he slowly painfully died.
Thinking back about that, I think he did
that because he missed her too much and
didn't want to go on without her, even
though the entire time she was alive he
took her for granted.

I might not of been married for as long
as my family but I seem to know more about
relationships than everyone else does. We both
agreed that we won't get divorced so we are
gonna make sure we work everything out. We
don't want to become a stastic. Since we
both come from broken families and our
parents don't know the meaning of love, we
have a really high chance of being divorced
ourselves and we don't want that.



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