[Saiyouri]

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(｡◕‿◕｡) That is disgusting. You should only do what you
can actually afford with what you have in
the bank and not go over board. A wedding is
a special day that you promise yourself to
the love of your life and not a big show off
party to act like you are god and got the best
of everything in life when in fact you most
likely don't have anything good at all.

To me most marriages don't work because one or
both of the people became selfish. A marriage
is a work together thing. Both of you have to
work together, understand each other completely,
agree with each other on the important issues.
If you can't agree on how to raise children, then
you can't make it work. Things like that have to
be agreed upon, both of you have to follow the
other with what they choose and not go against it.
But most couples out there only worry about themselves.
My husband's grandparents are like us, we share
everything and understand each other and accept the
other for who they are and not try to control the
situation and marriage. We work together entirely
and they worked out, my stupid mom controls her
marriage and the bastard she married and their
marriage is only going to last because 1- The guy
she married is terrified to be alone so he's gonna
stay in a mentally, verbally abusive marriage just
so he won't have to be alone and 2- my mom won't
have to work and she can spend all his money on
stupid ridiculous things that she doesn't even
need in a million years. She's a huge selfish
bitch that doesn't have a marriage and if they
both won't worried about having to fend for
themselves they would get divorced. I know it.
LOL I have a great marriage and my mom has a
terrible one and she waited til she was in her
really late 40's to get married for the first
time, to my husband's father. But they deserve
each other, both are losers and I hate to say
this, but it's true, both should die, especially
my mom. She's been a abusive person my whole
life and she is abusing my kids and there is
nothing I can do about it, and his father is
a horrible dad, he doesn't even care about his
own children and won't help them out no matter
if they are seconds away from being tossed on
the street with no where to go and no home and
no money. But they deserve each other, both
losers are together. By the way, I really hate
my mom, really hate her, I'm impatiently waiting
for her death because of what she's all done to
me, my husband, my son and the children she stole
from me. Poor kids are brainwashed into thinking
they deserve the mental and physical abuse.



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