[Sadrain]

I disagree with DeadMuse.
With what I see... it's not "no guy wants to devote 100% time to his grilfriend", it is "5% of time to my gf, 95% to my dear game".

If she is jealous, she has all the rights to. What she described is getting ridiculous. Gamers in general aren't bad, but when they for some reason chose game over their close people, it's insane, pretty illogical.

Maybe she asked a bit too much of him sometimes, but it could only hint that he is not ready to have any sort of responsibilities and is not ready for relationships in general. Currently, it is all about giving TO him, and asking bits from him, which he even refuses to give. BUT relationships are all about giving and taking, neither side more or less than the other. If he doesn't understand that, then I think he should be left alone with his games. Somehow, I am not even sure if he will be that upset, as cruel as it sounds, with his friends going like "finally that bitch will let us play as much as we want".

His game is his addiction, much like drug, and no one can help an addict if they don't want the help. So, no one can blame her for giving up trying to even these things out.

Another chance is starting to give him the same treatment. Going out when you want to, chatting with your friends, either gender, playing your own game and paying little to no attention to him. if he notices, and is displeased, either continue the treatment and then talk, or talk right away. If he doesn't, then leave him.

EDIT: I know these aren't the things you wanted to hear... But that is what I have to say, what this all gives feel of. And, really, you can't avoid hearing these things only cause you don't want the situation to be like this, admit that it is like this. You've already been doing for too long. He is grown too assured that you're there with him, won't go anywhere and that you will give up anything he asks to.