[Trakadon]

To be honest... This problem hits home for me. I lost my fiance to a game called "Perfect World" ( Ironic... I know ). She was one of those shut ins that if something went wrong she would blame herself to no end. And I suppose it was my fault it happened. I told her we needed to find something to do together and this is what she decided on. At first we were playing it together but then she started to do things on her own and I got bored of the game. Months went by and it became a chore just to get her to talk to me. I'd show up to her house and she would be playing the game. After awhile she stopped noticing that I even came over and she would still be playing the game. The only times she would notice me is if she got hungry, or thirsty, etc... We would get into arguments over the game and she would say things like "This was your idea." or "I thought you wanted me to make friends" and of course " I'm not leaving my friends. You have no idea what its like to be abandoned like that."

This went on for months and we stopped doing things that would label us as a couple... Then one day I showed up to her house and she said she had been doing some thinking about that things her and her friends had discussed and she came to the conclusion that I had been lying to her. Needless to say we aren't together anymore.

My point is and I know its not what you want to hear but... Your going down the same road I went down. I'm not even sure there is something you can do. He isn't willing to admit the game has taken over his priorities. And playing the game with him wont solve anything. If anything it will make it worse. I mean he is allowing his online friends to call you names and does nothing on his own to defend you.

It also sounds like he is willing to sacrifice his relationship with you to continue to play WoW. If he real does care for you then break up with him and he should beg you to take him back. And if not...