[Kotomi]

Okay it seems you are focusing on the wrong thing, do not try taking something away from someone you like, taking things away that they like can be stressful to them, and cause ill feelings or words to you
my parents for example: mom gets mad because dad is playing a game, she wants him to stop playing a game so she can spend time with him
it just causes problems
(more stress and less time together... since they both like doing different things- dad for the most part stopped playing to stop fighting, she is lucky he didn't leave her because people he knows who have seen them like that, said they wouldn't deal with it...)


I've found for myself it is alright to just be in a room together without having to do the same thing... but in my relationship we both can handle that, we don't have to be out going some place to have fun
sometimes just being in the same room is enough

so let him play and just focus on spending time with him