[Hermes]

Again it's not can't hang out with the gender, period, it's that it IS inappropriate. Flat out, it is. I don't care how nice you think your guy friends are, somewhere in the back of their mind, if they're single or soon to be, they don't give a crap WHO you are dating, and the same goes for women. So, again, not "No guy/girl friends for you!" It's "Could you try not to constantly be out with a bunch of guys/girls...?"

It's not a trust thing. Trust is knowing they won't go out and never call, trust is knowing they won't go through your phone and get mad that you texted Larry twice more than you texted them, trust is knowing they aren't actively attempting to cheat on you.

But...shiz happens. Trust me, I've experienced this in the recent past. It's not that you don't trust them, but don't be so naive as to trust everyone else around them.

How come, it seems, everyone besides cupcake only saw the parts of my post that said "Liar" and "guy/girl friends"? When you read a post, be sure to read the whole thing ;3